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Radio Show Archive - February 2016

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February 1

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Dr Tim Hayes hosts.  michael and jeanie are finalizing preparations for the Intensives to begin tonight.

Discussion of tapping into the loving ever present energy of another and letting go of "loss" and "missing"

Dr. Tim's website where there is a video on Trauma, Loss & Grief - http://candhcounseling.com/media.asp 

Use the tools that removes everything less than love and all that is left is the energy of Love that we are. Dismantle the inherited, genetic, conditioning.

PDF "Saying goodbye to good people without saying goodbye to good memories" go to http://candhcounseling.com/upload/saying_goodbye_to_good_people_-_handout.pdf

February 2

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michael explains projection communication verse respons-ability communication

Magda called in to share the "awareness" that at the end of the wake-up sheet when a new goal is set, one needs to execute a behavior and actually "do" something to see that goal's achievement

Brenda conversation about ACIM lesson about looking at the world differently, changed her view on "her mind being blank" that she was releasing her grip on all the issues (her reality) not losing her grip on life. 

A participant of the intensive shared that they realized they were finally living whereas they had been "dead" just existing and not a real BEING.

Explain "sadness" how do you not feel sad when there is "loss" or "missing someone"?  Wake-up sheets around sadness, grief and loss. Replace the programed belief of loss and experience the Being we are.  Live for self and release identifying with our "position" of mother, father, provider, etc. we may take on a "role" in life but that is not who we really are.  And relinquishing the role of the provider Mom does not mean relinquishing the person Mom.

February 3

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Recovery Wednesday.  Terry Bowling discussed "super highs and super lows" and using the tools to stay in the natural flow instead of being in resistance.

michael explains the differences and similarities of the Healing Process and the Dis-ease Process. Ways to assist the healing process go more smoothly.

Gail Boggs correlates the "cause and effect" with the 12-step program, Serenity Prayer.

February 4

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michael & Dr. Tim give their perspective on Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP).

Discussion we are Love and Love is the field in which we live, move and have our Being. Explain separation verses being one with God.

February 5

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There is a power bigger than us who knows how everything works and keeps it working (i.e. how do I keep breathing, how do I digest food, how does my heart keep breathing or what keeps the stars in place?).  This power says "ask and receive" but your asker is not your head but in your "heart" the unconscious. We are creators, so if there is something you want, why have you not created it?  Because there is a part of you deeper and stronger than your words that believes differently.  "I don't deserve it. I can't have it. It will not work."

Why do we cancel a goal when it is a GOOD GOAL?  i.e Wanting a dying child to live? Stand as a healing space instead of in fear. Aramaic SHBAG means to cancel or untie (let loose).

ACIM "Let go all the things you think you want. Your triffling treasures put away. Leave a clear and open space for Christ to come."

February 6

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February 7

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February 8

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Conflict is a warning device that something needs to change inside of me not everyone else. Dr Tim Hayes recommended the book "The I of the Storm: Embracing Conflict, Creating Peace" by Gary Simmons

Building brain cells to a new way of behaving and thinking. 

Movie reference: "The Stoning of Soraya M" the insanity. How long has this been going on? 

February 9

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Dr Tim hosted. Nothing outside of you can cause you pain. When we say "You made me ______"  We see 9-bits (maximum) of conscious information at a time while there is 10,000 brain cells firing in a 20 trillion bit world...and we think we know what is going on.  It is like looking through a pinhole at the Grand Canyon and then walking away saying we saw the Grand Canyon. Or looking and tasting, etc a glass full of ocean water and saying we have experienced the ocean.

Pat K. who participated in the 9-day intensive called in and shared doing her work around her feelings on abandonment by both her parents.  She did a wake-up sheet as if she were her father doing a wake-up sheet on little Patty (herself). Great ah-has!

If I experience upset around something, it is something I have done myself and I am still judging myself negatively.  My advice for "them" is perfect advice for me.

February 10

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Recovery Wednesday. Dr Tim's theme in his office the last two days has been people who are addicted to the familiar.  michael offers familiar is family traditions and the power person issues.

Dr Andracki speaks of the work he does in helping people become "clean" of their addictions and that it always depends on the person wanting to drop their addiction.

Gail speaks of her being in addiction for years and her goal that drove her to stop and make the change was having her children. She had a higher goal. Reference from Bill W's book 12-steps and 12-traditions.  Are there any exceptions or justifiable anger? No.  And it is an ongoing daily process.

Hold "pen and tongue" means if not in a loving space do not say or write anything until you get back your connectionn to Source (Love).

Michelle shared her healing crisis during the intensive and being able to move through it without the normal "stopping of the symptoms."  The feeling and support of being surrounded by love, the breathing, the sweet space for healing.  She shared her experience of walking down the sidewalk one evening and in the street lighting she saw "snow" or "pollen" then realized she was seeing the energy around her (in her field, aura)...the particles were in sync and rotating around her.  She cried and breathed, all doubt was gone, she tapped into the moment to hold onto as what was possible.

We will be planning a special show for people to call in and share what drove their desire to pull out of their addiction...to give inspiration to those who haven't made it yet.

February 11

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Alanis Morissette singing "Madness" (did not come through clear enough).  The song says "Now I see the madness in me - it's brought out in the presence of you - now I know the madness lives on - when you're not in the room.  Though I'd love to blame you for all I wish - I miss these moments of opportune - you simply brought this madness to light - and I should thank you.  Oh, thank you, much thanks for this birds eye view. Oh thank you for your most generous triggers."  Read the lyrics at http://www.metrolyrics.com/madness-lyrics-alanis-morissette.html  and listen to her sing it on https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8D9mhHd6P_U  Also check her song "Underneath" where she addresses that it is all a more personal, an inside issue reflecting in our world.

Respons-ability Communication. Accept it is an inside job.

Question about doing a worksheet on money and the uncertainty of it, highs that surprise and lows that last a long time. What kind of punishment towards money or self? Refuse it? Push it away?

February 12

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Check out this video http://www.cbsnews.com/news/how-a-blind-teen-sees-with-sound/ - he lost his eyes at 2 years old, now he is 14 years old and he "sees" through the darkness by echolocation like the dolphin or whale.  So ... do we really "see" with our eyes?

Susan shares her Laws of Living classwork and her own growth through the LOL 8 times.  Michael reminds her and all of us who are doing our purpose to take this work to every mind on the planet and create the shift towards love (through critical mass)...

Quote from "Mr. Holland's Opus" - "Mr. Holland isn't rich and he isn't famous, at least not outside of our little town. So it might be easy for him to think himself a failure. But he would be wrong, because I think that he's achieved a success far beyond riches and fame. Look around you. There is not a life in this room that you have not touched, and each of us is a better person because of you. We are your symphony Mr. Holland. We are the melodies and the notes of your opus. We are the music of your life."

February 13

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 NO SHOWS ON WEEK-ENDS.  SEE YOU MONDAY.heart Happy Eternal Day michael!

February 14

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 NO SHOWS ON WEEK-ENDS.  SEE YOU MONDAY.heart Happy Valentines Day!

February 15

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Thich Nhat Hanh article http://www.lionsroar.com/growing-together/ great teaching on relationship. It begins inside yourself.

Choose to be sweetness and hold the space of love for self and others.  Be aware - thinker apart from the thought, feeler apart from the feeling, actor apart from the action.

Interesting to see the resistence for some to be willing to look within. They have the tools but won't use them.

Remove the energies creating the distortion in the cells and the cells can return to perfect health. Not always easy or Dr. Feelgood.

February 16

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When we say we feel something because of something or someone outside of us we are in denial.  Forgiveness is when we stand in the space of willingness and drop inside and see what the thought is behind the feeling and when exposed to love it will dissolve. Then we can be "human" regardless of what our circumstances are. Definition of a human? Think of holding a newborn and describe its essence in one word - miracle, beautiful, sweet, precious, inncent, awesome - that is human and who we are all designed to be.

February 17

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(Apologies. We were about 4-5 mintutes late starting, BlogTalk had to reset us, our program was delayed getting turned on.) michael explained the Personal Code Evaluation and how the results show us our "blind spots" and custom assignments to have the best process during intensive.  The participants coming in for Laws of Living have the highest scores as a group (none under 65 points).  This is going to create a platform to sail higher than normal.  Susan Darnell (primo LOL teacher from Wilmington NC) may join us too.

Susan called in with a question about the relationship substitution.  This happens when someone violates an important goal that was held for the Power Person.  Until those PP dynamics are resolved the person one is in relationship with will no longer be seen as they are/were, they will be "clothed" in the unresolved energies of the PP.  Julie called in to further the discussion by asking how can they get out of the PP file.

Recovery Wednesday will resume next week. The Power Person / CoDependence aspect is also an addiction.

February 18

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(Apologies - BTR did it again - we were about 8 minutes late getting the show on, hopefully we have the issues worked out)

The difference in Prayer and Blessing.  Prayer is being in alignment with God (Love) and reflecting that to the world while Blessing is spreading that Love on others and seeing it in others.  Refer to the book "Gentle Art of Blessing" by Pierre Pradervand, shows how the simple act of blessing creates a whole new world. 

Difference in being in one's head verses being in their heart.  The head attempts to "figure it out" based on past experiences while being in the heart is being connected and capturing the present moment experience.

Maureen shared that her 5 year old daughter spontaneously asked to do a wake-up sheet the other night (and it may have been to delay bedtime but that's OK). 

How to start a wake-up sheet about wanting a particular job and yet being afraid of getting it.  Afraid of failure if she gets it and yet she will be disappointed if she doesn't get it.

February 19

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Vladimir Lenin, dictator in Soviet Union in early 1900s, said the way to destroy a culture is to change the meaning of its words. Culture is passed from generation to generation via words.  If the meaning of the words is changed then the true culture is lost and something else is created.  An example of this happening is the meaning of forgiveness was changed to pardoning and true forgiveness was lost.

The Laws of the Universe (created by the Laws of the Eternal Forces) cannot be broken.  When we understand how it works we can play in that realm and avoid collision. If we don't understand the Laws we collide and we are the ones who get broken.  If Y'Shua sat in most churches today would say "That is all Greek to me." His teachings have been changed.  He said when we think of the Creator or neighbor (anyone we think of including ourself) we must maintain Rakhma (a filter in our mind, frontal lobes, over intentions) active in order to maintain ourself as Being. Love is a state of BEING not something we DO to another.

Just like the Law of Gravity or Law of Attraction (resonance) ... there are Laws of the land, Laws of relationship interaction, Laws regarding the energetic needs of your body and mind, and on and on.

Incoherent frequencies in your system manifest in your cells as dis-ease.  Remove the frequencies and the tissue goes back to health.  Forgiveness removes the incoherent frequencies of your previous 4 generations.

February 20

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February 21

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February 22

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Dr Tim and Michelle fill in - michael & jeanie are still busy with the intensive group in StillPoint Breathing.  Paul from California called in, He is merging his company with the Rukha Group and developing a program for teaching this work.  Julie Haverstick from HeartLand also called in with input.

February 23

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Members of the Rukha Group call in: Dr. Tim, Rex, Paul and discuss the process of taking this work to the corporate world. 

February 24

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Recovery Wednesday. What are we trying to recover?  It is more than living without the substance and getting closer to God (Love).  We are getting back our human life (hold a newborn, its essence is the experience of life).  The false self must die for the True self to live.

The alcohol or substance seems to smooth out the internal pain - it doesn't but it has an anesthesizing effect.  The pain is a driver (often unconscious) for the behavior.  When the pain is dealt with then the toxic substance is no longer needed for anesthesizing the pain.   One of the greatest moments of pain and rage is when we gave up who we are for what we thought we needed to be based on messages from the Power Person and environment.  We must be willing to go back through and clear that up.  Forgiveness is what clears that up.

Gail and Terry call in and share from their perspective.  Some use it to not feel anything but with others they think the "high" correlates to experiencing God and blissfulness.  It actually feels good because the pain has been shut down.  It is a lack of pain but it is not permanent.  michael explains the brain is actually "dying" and gives an appearance of euphoria.  Endorphins and Cephalins (natural pain killer) released.

PTSD - a traumatic experience in life occurs and plays out when the veil is more open and what has been pushed down into the unconscious rises back out.  Without the tools one usually turns to some addictive behavior.  

Power Person dynamics are based on the level of stress.  Automatic behavior.

February 25

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Dr Tim shares that one of his clients took the tools and used them and introduced them to her family and their child gave an affirmative that he saw a change in his mom within the first week.

Pat K. (who had partiipated in the 9-day CodEp/Comm Intensive) called in for assistance in a worksheet around her dad.

Sonni called in for assistance around another financial issue.

February 26

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We need stress in our life but as seen in michael's DVD "Getting the Stress You Need" we need to know how stress is created and how to get rid of stresses that do not serve us.  Faculty of "Will" manages our mind indirectly by managing our goals.

Dr Tim sees the theme of people slowly awakening to awareness that it is a process but it needs to be continued. One worksheet won't take care of all the issues...takes effort to interrupt the pattern of belief of holding on.  It takes surrender ... either to the Carbon Based Memory of Hostility or Fear or surrender to Love.

Shelly called in - it is like the recycle icon - a continual loop. One has to keep doing the work.   He has seen such a change in people around him sending him love and embracing him differently since he dropped hostility and fear and remains in love. Send love and receive love.

Another tool introduced in Laws of Living is "Word Links" 

Another caller, with children 3 and 5, wants to know how to introduce the children to the work. Maureen called in to share her experience with her children (same age).  Also, imagery of going to a "happy place" and the use of a "Love Chair" verses a "Time Out Chair"

February 27

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February 28

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February 29

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Leap Day! Julie Haverstick, from HeartLand, joins us on Mondays now! The attainment of Peace and the obstacles that keep Peace away from ourselves. Peace is not the absence of war but is the Peace That Passes All Understanding...the awakening to our true being.

Dr. Tim's clients' theme has been "help me get them to change!" instead of the willingness to look inside.

Don D. calls in requesting assistance with forgiveness toward a situation with an aquaintance who he perceives has stolen from him.  michael explains the difference in pardoning her verses forgiveness of what is inside himself and what part of himself has drawn in someone to not be in integrity to show him what he needs to clean up.  michael suggests listening to the song "Madness" by Alanis Morissette, she talks about being unwilling to look inside.

Text asks "What about boundaries? What are healthy boundaries?"  michael suggests boundaries may be a way of avoiding looking at what the situation brings up.  Dr. Tim says everything I do educates people around me about what is acceptable or not acceptable to me.  If I stay conscious and focus on self, making clear statements, then I can be responsible in words and behavior to keep my values clear.  Julie speaks of her classroom experiences and that boundaries shut her students out and shut herself out.  She did her work around those thoughts and built relationships on fairness, feel them (Who they were), and let go of needing to be in control, deal with vulnerability and be present and receptive.  More valuable than any boundary.

Star Trek V: The Final Frontier - an obsessive search for God and finding what one is searching for is what is searching.

February 30

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February 31

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