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|April 1||Newsletter went out yesterday April 2019: “HeartLand 2019 Intensive Packing List & Directions: Personal Note From michael ryce” (https://conta.cc/2JRt9xD) – you can get all our Newsletters from May 2016 to now at https://whyagain.org/newsletters/
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Caller Susan in PA, question about the ACIM using negative speech and YShua using a woman with issues. None perfect.
Caller Brenda from Memphis, two requests, First, Tracey asks everyone hold a space of Love for her as she is at a show with some of her items. Second is for herself, tomorrow she will conduct three different 2-hour classes at Forest City Arkansas Correctional Facility (25, 18 and 13 in attendance).
Caller Magda, question from Support Group. Watching Circle of Life and How to Play It. Difference between Liberty and Freedom and how does “free will” fit into this? There is no freedom (wanting to do whatever and have no consequences). There is Liberty to do whatever I choose but then I get to live with the consequences of my choice. In Liberty there is responsibility to deal with the results. “Will” is a faculty of Being, and can bring in something new if using my will – it can be constructive or destructive. Some people say how can God allow this suffering? No people have the choice to do and the result is suffering and God did not do it.
Jeanie shared an email from a man in Glasgow UK who just found the work and wants to take a further course from michael and is excited to teach it to the world. Then another person who has ‘played around the work’ for years read the top line of the newsletter ‘Why did you spill your coffee?’ and answered off the wall, Jeanie told him to read the whole newsletter to really get it (he does not really understand it all).
Caller Jessica, needs pep talk, confused state. Doing wake-up sheets and not seeing the shift in finances. MindShifter: “I always earn twice as much as I can spend.” On northeast coast (NY City area) doing own personal work but her business is helping others too.
michael spoke about connection of stress and behavior. Forgiveness process keeps stress levels down. Power Person explanation. Perceive the circumstance as survival and behavior follows. When ‘no stress’ a person does what they did with their PP to ‘get along’ then when stress builds one will shift into doing what they did ‘to resist and survive’ with their PP and then when ultra stressed they will shift to ‘do to others what was done to them by the PP that they hated the most’ Shift into PP dynamics without thought.
|April 2||Dr Tim says there is no thing as bad self-knowledge. “Google Hangouts Dialer – Call Phones” can dial into the radioshow.
Caller Peter from Sweden. Discussion of reaching for ‘drug of choice’ to anesthesize from the fear or pain.
michael spoke to Peter about cancelling goals to change behavior.
|April 3||thanks Michele for filling in for Jeanie|
|April 4||“There is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so.” William Shakespeare
Caller Brenda from Memphis.
Caller Joan. Excited about going to HeartLand on May 30th for 40 days.
Jeanie told about the new additions to Podcasts on the website (right side icon will redirect you to Podcast page with player)
Caller Jessica, put up an event, thinks why bother no one will show up. This is a circle that keeps repeating and can’t seem to break through. Jeanie told of an experience when she finally broke through “not good enough to listen to” and then explained the physical, mental, emotional, spiritual are all tied together and suggested adding EFT Faster Tapping https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UnTwiQY2hcM to the worksheets to “break free” the physical part of the issue.
michael suggested and explained the traceable patterns via Physiological Effects of Emotional Suppression https://whyagain.org/images/PDF/PHYSIOLOGICAL_EFFECTS_OF_EMOTIONAL_SUPPRESSION_rev2017.pdf seems you have lost the enthusiasm. She agreed but doesn’t know how to break the cycle. Premature Positive Thinking. If in my heart I hold “this could never work” but in my head I keep saying “I am successful” that will resonate the “this could never work” – a house divided against itself. Mindshifter: “Whenever I put myself out to people, I always get a huge wonderful supportive response.” She said No way. I always get disappointed. goes on the right side of page. Another pattern is I am encouraged to share my work uncensored, there is a part that has a desire to make videos and get it out there but in the past made very little money. Scolded by parents for doing business that way. How to make peace with this? Another MindShifter: “I am always abundantly supported for the work I do.” michael pointed out repeatedly her denial that it is always something or someone outside of her irritating her.
The world we see is actually from inside thoughts firing. Our language instructs our mind what data to use to create perception. Your head knows but your heart doesn’t yet. Jeanie shared the walking on water in the middle of the storm, sink or walk water. Jessica emotional break. michael said there is deep grief underlying. Camille offered to do worksheets with her over the phone.
Caller Terri from Wilmington. Can relate to Jessica. Shared an experience of the week where co-workers lied to her and it connected to her older sisters lying to her when she was 7 years old. Cancel the goal for people to tell the truth. To have integrity. To treat me like an adult, etc. Where does that leave me? Jeanie added hold them accountable but not out of fear or pain. michael said it sounds like a healing process, go with lemon water cayenne pepper and not drugstore stuff. You will push it back down and weaken your system. Oreganoil.
|April 5||Caller Camille
Caller Susan B
Introducing Rory, 10 years old in grade 5, played the first part of I am Woman by Helen Reddy “I am woman, hear me roar in numbers too big to ignore. And I know too much to go back an’ pretend ’cause I’ve heard it all before and I’ve been down there on the floor, no one’s ever gonna keep me down again. Oh yes, I am wise, bBut it’s wisdom born of pain, yes, I’ve paid the price, but look how much I gained. If I have to, I can do anything. I am strong. I am invincible. I am woman.” Walking Rory through Level 4 work-it-out sheet from Healing Children Loving Children. https://whyagain.org/images/PDF/Work%20It%20Out%20Sheet%20Four%20from%20HCLC.pdf Rory said there was an email from the library that ended up in her spam box and she did not see it. Made her mad. michael explained denial “that made me mad.” and responsibility communication would say “that brought anger up in me” she also had fear about how much was she going to owe them? michael explained this would be 2 work sheets, begin with the one on mad for now. She said she was drawing a red emoji. The goal in #6 “That I don’t owe them money that the email would have gone into her inbox” michael explains a hydra. And to be specific … for email to sort things properly and underlying might be to be aware. She realized when cancelling the goal that it was her and that she should have done things right. michael spoke of needing to be perfect is probably genetic. Asking in #8 for help in letting go (michael explained Rukha). Rory said she realized she thought of the “worst case scenario” and that she is “a worst case scenario” kind of person. michael said the Universe is here to support you always. (he told Rory about Magda’s hydra) They spoke of Rory’s little sister (8 years old) and her hugging her. Her drawing is sometimes a neutral face but right now it is a definite smiley face. New goal discussion and where is the focus? What do you want not what you don’t want? What she really wants is for the librarian to understand and let go of the debt. Or take it to another level and say “free to go”. Rory asked what’s the difference and is there anything missing? michael said no the earlier ones are just simpler in words.
Question in chatroom of our perspective of ho’oponopono. michael explained a slight difference from what we teach yet felt it began in the same vein as the Aramaic. And the Hawaiians are probably one of the lost tribes.
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|April 8||Caller Roma
Power Person behavior discussion, when stress is up you will do what your PP did that you hated the most, at that moment you could ask yourself “How did it feel when your PP did that to you?”
https://whyagain.org/images/PDF/TheRoseTheButterfly.pdf stay connected to Source
summer schedule https://whyagain.org/flyers-publicity-for-workshops/
Thanks to Patrick for leading the project of the bell tower (see pictures https://whyagain.org/heartland-bell-tower/)
Caller Joan in Birmingham, comment on the wake-up sheets and how amazing they are. michael offered Joan to forgive the thought she can’t teach it. Looking forward to 40 days in the desert.
https://conta.cc/2JRt9xD Why did you spill your coffee? newsletter what comes out of you when you are squeezed?
question in chatroom about studying the Aramaic. George Lamsa and the Enlightenment on our website. https://noohra.com/dr-rocco-a-errico/ Rocco Errico. Aramaicisms on our site is a DVD with Dale Allen Hoffman and michael.
Caller Peter in Sweden, in process of leaving ‘human life’ I did things that we not right. michael discussed pardoning self and others while cancelling the goal to be perfect. Goal to stay in life. Touched into his Mom and wanting her attention.
|April 9||Pierre Pradervand interview on first half of show (Dr Tim has a direct link on his site too)
Thanks Michele for filling in for Jeanie on the switchboard
|April 10||Caller Michele conversation of blessing (Pierre’s interview) is it the same as positive thinking?
Caller Brenda shared working in the Arkansas prison.
Caller Lauren NY
|April 11||Dr Tim talked that religion & doctrine is not a path of truth. Compassion is part of the air I am breathing. It is from life flowing through me, seeing others as myself.
Question on step 6C on 7 step worksheet (email from Scotland). michael explained its purpose is for bringing in compassion. Expecting someone else to give you something you are not giving to either others or yourself.
Caller Magda. Update on Patrick Quinn, in hospital in ICU for now (kidneys and bladder). She also acknowledged Dr Tim for the monologue – it was powerful. Then asked for comment, Step 4 in wake-up sheet is the reconnect to Love. Important to not just read the words but to take time to reconnect. michael said yes to engage in Love before cancelling the goal (bring the world you do not want to the one you do, ACIM). Love transmutes one form to another. Jeanie offered the story of the Rose & the Butterfly (https://whyagain.org/images/PDF/TheRoseTheButterfly.pdf) it is connection to Source where Life is. We must be connected to Love to be willing to let go or cancel the goal, just like 5B Rukha will assist once we are willing to let go in 5A. Dr Tim added ‘regulatory speech’ we can’t disconnect from Love but we can pull our awareness away from that essence but it is always there. With my mind energy I create ‘a dream’ that I am less than but my true nature is totally safe and always there. The wake-up sheet helps us to shift the awareness by removing the thoughts and feelings that cover the truth.
michael spoke of a young lady and the changes that have transpired after doing her work with Julie Haverstick. Another story of a couple in the Army and getting transferred to the place they desired. A woman in prison who wanted a transfer to be closer to her child and after 6 weeks of doing her work got the transfer. Drop the energetic patterns held and shift and the nature of the result changes. What frequency catalyzes your life? Sometimes it is generational thinking that needs to be changed. Jeanie gave an example of working with a lady who could NOT think of anything loving or reconnect to Love and could not work through the issue until she finally got it.
Caller Peter from Sweden. Can it happen withpout Love? Like cell memory? Example, seeming small issue and worked through the wake-up sheet and did reconnect but felt the love more after the fact. michael said underlying everything is the active presence of Love and things could be firing and distracting me and it takes practice. What is the deciding factor? michael spoke of healing crisis symptoms includes a new level of vitality, once energized enough the big one moves. Peter said compassion is easier to give to the cat than family. michael said that is because family are triggers more than the cat and the distraction.
|April 12||Caller Susan in PA discussion with Dr Tim – difference in scriptures inspired by God and people ‘channelling’ from God. Susan asked Arya Reign if she was total being or was she experiencing the genetic dynamics? We are supporting her in knowing she is Love and already saying cancel the goal when things don’t go her way.
Caller Angie in Michigan. Today is JC’s 12th year around the sun, not sure if she will see him. Her daughter was accepted into Harvard (she is 18) took her on a campus tour. Needs to move the emotion of sadness and agony. michael asked what is the thought that your mind is constructing the sadness around? The idea of separation and noticing the time spent thinking how she could have done things differently. michael offered sadness is the deepest, feel it fully and what thought comes? I don’t want to be here without God (Love). Listen to the little voice of Arya – Angie smiling said yeah she is aware of her. michael pointed out just the change of thought changed her emotion for the moment. We go moment to moment and if there is anything unlike love that is our opportunity. Feminine elemental force in you Rukha d’Koodsha that will assist if you ask. Wanting things to be different, go back to each moment and cancel the goal 77×70 times. The goal moves the thought to construct the painful reality and when the goal is cancelled the reality collapses into its footprint to what is under.
Caller Tim B in PA, presence of active Love. Hinduism, “Atman means ‘eternal self’. The atman refers to the real self beyond ego or false self. It is often referred to as ‘spirit’ or ‘soul’ and indicates our true self or essence which underlies our existence.” And michael added Namaskar & Namaste: “My soul recognizes your soul, I honor the light, love, beauty, truth and kindness within you because it is also within me, in sharing these things there is no distance and no difference between us, we are the same, we are one.”
Caller Kenny in Birmingham, I have beat the odds, no man in my family lived past 40. His Dad died in front of him and he was told if he was a good boy he can go to heaven and see his Dad again. He ‘heard’ he needed to go ahead and kill himself and go be with his Dad. Feeling guilty for being alive. michael offered cancel the need to be innocent.
Caller Linda, the problem comes from the mind so is the answer in the mind? michael said we can’t ‘figure it out’ in order to heal we have to be ‘out of our minds’ The more active love we have the less we can be touched by the ‘physical things’
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|April 15||Got a text from Rex that Mitzi’s Mom is transitioning, hold the space for the family. Mitzi wrote a book about the love, loss & healing around the death of her son a few years ago. Buy a copy https://www.amazon.com/Journey-Mothers-Account-Spiritual-Healing-ebook/dp/B07DZHLSDB
movie: “The Best of Enemies” there is powerful healing, true story.
HeartLand Aramaic Forgiveness App (free) for both Android and iPhone. Also http://healingthewholewoman.whyagain.org/worksheets/ can do the wake-up sheets and Drag-on Cling-on Game online on your computer too.
HeartLand schedule May 30 to July 9, 2019
Got an email regarding the work and true perception. Thank you to everyone.
Marianne Williamson last night at the CNN Democratic Town Hall Meeting – she is a candidate for 2020 Presidential Race https://www.cnn.com/politics/live-news/marianne-williamson-town-hall/index.html She was right on and spoke of creating “Moral and Spiritual Awakening” in the US https://www.cnn.com/2019/01/31/politics/marianne-williamson-2020-presidential-campaign-cnntv/index.html
Another runner Andrew Yang was on target as well.
Caller Bob from Australia (3:40AM there) quoted William Ernest Henley “I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul.”
|April 16||Caller Susan in PA, conversation of being one with what gave rise to the thought. “The One you are looking for is the One who is looking” St Francis of Assisi
Caller Jessica, great week following guilt and fear. What was the thought? Guided to share the trauma she went through and began posting on Facebook. Fear and terror that what if her parents heard about it or saw the posts. Kicked out of her parents’ home. Her parents are paying her rent. She really did not want to talk with them. Jeanie offered she was avoiding exactly what she needed to do work on. MindShifter: “It is safe and healing for me to look at and accept what I have been denying.” Bouncing between two psuedo solutions “Can’t figure it out” Sounds like one goal is situation with parents and the other is the people with the a/c – both cases is for people to cooperate. She added consideration of her. Cancel the goal for people to cooperate and recognize her wishes. They all control her and they have the power to deny her security. michael offered notice she wants to control things around her. She shared about ‘being excluded and rejected’ from a group and michael pointed out the difference in her story (her phone wouldn’t download the app) and her perception is that they rejected her. She wanted them to close down the app process and do it via email or text. michael offered her core issue is her construct holds she is rejected and excluded and that is not true. And she is defaulting to her Power Person dynamic which is to control it. A deep piece of work you have to do. Jeanie asked Jessica why she did not go get a job and she said she wasn’t guided to do so. Tell the joke of the flood and the familyt saying God we trusted you, He said I sent you 2 boats and a helicopter. Go wait tables or work in a bank, get an income to be financially stable then do your higher work. The clients you need may be at the restaurant.
|April 17||Way of Mastery – teach only love. Not lectures but getting in touch with your true nature and understand anything other than is error. Then the clear and open conduit for creation is teaching love.
Caller Susan in PA, Dr Tim advised shift your energy into calm and love it will shift it in others too, the most powerful teaching.
Caller Magda. Discussion of ‘giving up the addiction to sugar’ not ‘giving up sugar’ – when I have the intense drive to get sugar, I stop and hug myself, take 3 slow breaths and talk to myself like a child “I know you want it, I understand.” Nurture myself and then realize when we are in an addictive frenzy then the suppressed issue is right there close to the surface, getting ready to come forward for healing. Do ‘feel better worksheet’ and acknowledge I really do want to heal. I can have sugar when I am in my right mind in limited amounts instead of my addiction and it’s huge amounts. michael added there is research showing sugar is more addictive than cocaine. Use alternative sweetners ie molasses. Does suppression go into unconscious? Suppression I can say I am hiding something from myself but Dissociation puts it in a box to never touch and it runs our lives.
movie: “Thanks for Sharing” the addiction of the characters is alcohol, sex, anger and just before going to the drug of choice everyone first went to hostility. You are raised to be a ‘nice little girl’ and hostility is not allowed. Watch for hidden hostility…also covers fear. https://whyagain.org/images/PDF/PHYSIOLOGICAL_EFFECTS_OF_EMOTIONAL_SUPPRESSION_rev2017.pdf
michael mentioned Jessica’s conversation yesterday, actuality was the group chose to go with ‘What’s App’ and because she could not access it she took on “I’m rejected and left out.” great example of difference in perception and actuality.
Hold the space for Patrick at HeartLand, he’s been around for the last 20 years doing his work. They are doing a transfusion today.
Caller Nancy resonated braincells – the Power Person, dissociation, and suppression. Did Responsibility Communication and wants feedback https://whyagain.org/images/PDF/CommunicationRules_rev2017.pdf – an employer left a voicemail that they were letting her go. She wrote the letter and is now anxious and fearful. She wanted to be treated with respect. michael offered ‘being seen as right and competent and consistant’ suggest you might create an appointment to open communication instead of dropping it off. Jeanie suggested reading the letter to them too. And notice this is a repeat pattern in other areas of your life where you are left out, not respected, no communication. Love Exchange active in your Being.
Caller Roma, hostility and fear and connected to pain. Intrinsic relationship. michael explained the Enthusiasm is where we come in and it is when that is shut down that is when the energy locks into the Pineal gland. When cut off from being we go into a pained state.
|April 18||Caller Jill from Wilmington, NC walked through a wake-up sheet with Dr Tim.
Thanks Michelle for filling in for Jeanie.
|April 19||Happy Good Friday & Resurrection Day!
Dr Tim shared a story of the Prince
Caller Linda W. shared the results of sharing the app with someone and the shift they made in using it. Discussed a support group and what it takes to do.
On website https://whyagain.org/images/PDF/What_Tool_When.pdf updated.
Love is a state of being.
Caller Susan in PA, Luke reconciled with his parents. Had a great discussion on the Power Person. Question for Jeanie, what’s the difference in the aborted baby and the miscarried baby besides the Mother’s decision? Talked about writing a letter to the baby. And letting go of the guilt and shame and sadness and loss. Making excuses for it to be OK does not make it OK. Holding the space of Love for anyone on any side of the issue. The hateful and angry add energy to (contributors to) that issue to continue. The healing of the pain and trauma is to bring it to love.
Caller Jessica, her boundaries not being respected by others and see it a lot and feel it is up for healing. michael asked what comes up when someone does this? Annoyance – suppressed anger. ACIM says the slightest irritation covers the deepest rage. michael said that anger is going to draw to you more of the same. Cancel the goal. Offering is that as long as you hold the slightest irritation around that, you reinforce the pattern with “I do not deserve respect.” even though you say “I want respect.”
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HAPPY EASTER DAY!
|April 22||Caller Susan B., Dr Tim offered her to settle into truth with the comfort she receives from reading a passage.
Susan said she had written the letter to her baby but had not burned it yet. Then question in ACIM, it says stop and meditate on the lesson
Caller Kenny asked about the Lord’s Prayer and video on Living Not Saying The Lord’s Prayer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UryDQSqPYEc
What about the Tower of Babel and also “Babylon is fallen, come out”
Caller Julie H, ask for explanation of the resistor
Movie: “The Public” can see the battle of Being and non-being
|April 23||Dr Tim hosted the first hour and co-hosted the secpnd hour. Thank you for your support.|
|April 24||Michele covered for Jeanie on the switchboard.|
|April 25||Dr Tim shared a story from Guy Finley about a prospector and the flash floods after a season of draught. The power of just saying ‘Go on without me.” We can choose our floods.
Jeanie hosted the 2nd hour, Magda and Michele spoke towards the Women Healing Women Intensives and the power of the space. Jeanie gave some discription of how it came about and what she covers.
Caller Kenny walked through a worksheet on abuse as a child. Hating his aunt and getting to a lighter relaxed space.
Caller Peter, said he is sinking in his storm needs a hand up. Hopelessness & Self disapproval. Need to be perfect and be approved of.
|April 26||Power Point Presentation on Aramaic Forgiveness https://whyagain.org/powerpoints-explain-2/
Caller Susan B asked about dream life and so much moving. She also asked for guidance around ‘enabling’ or ‘assisting’ their grandson Luke.
Caller Marlene, “Honor thy Father & Mother” Jeanie explained, bringing Love through me towards them and I heal. “that thy days be long on the earth.” michael added it is physiology. michael explained the ACIM “In my defenselessness my power and safety lies” When I hold the need to defend then I send out a resonance for attack.
Carl Jung “Those who look without dream, those who look within awakens”
Caller Peter from Sweden, the most loaded goal was ‘he wants to be impressive’ michael asks where does that come from? simple existance is beyond comprehension. what had to happen that you thought that was not enough and you had to be impressive? people gave different messages about yourself. Who around you was very impressive? He thought Father but his logical mind says no. michael offered as a 4 year old you thought I will never be that good. Forgive the false beliefs and just show up. Jeanie suggested any challenges as to what you are moving forward to (hip) and self guilt (pain) – refer to Louise Hay https://alchemyofhealing.com/causes-of-symptoms-according-to-louise-hay/ He said his only goal was full of vengence and anger – cover pain. michael mentioned goals of worthy, good enough, better than, deserve love just because – instead of hostility. Jeanie added the goal is a ‘constructive goal’ not hostile goal. michael added that hostility usually is directed toward people close to you not strangers. Under the hostility will be the pain and guilt.
Master Cleanse https://whyagain.org/images/PDF/MasterCleanse.pdf
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|April 29||Dr Tim had guest Corinne Zupko discussing her book From Anxiety to Love (a practical guide around the ACIM)and her website is https://fromanxietytolove.com/
michael just visited a local physician who offers healing as well as treatment. michael got a copy of his new book Mindful Medicine: A Guide to Understanding Your Inner Voice by James H. Schrenker MD, RD, CDE and his wife Brandy P. Schrenker MS
Refer to movie: “Master and Commander: The Far Side of the World” (2003) Russell Crowe – two nations (both supposedly Christian) slaughtering each other. When was the last time people/ nations actually behaved as a true Christians. We must remove everything unlike our true nature, LOVE.
Jeanie announced if any lady is serious about attending a Women Healing Women Intensive to please email email@example.com – she is looking at starting Sunday August 25th and doing a 4, 5 or 6 day intensive. This is an available week for her to do an intensive. If there is enough commitment she will proceed on booking a place (will be either Smokey Mountains, TN or Asheville, NC or historical Abingdon, VA).
Caller Joan asked What to do in a relationship when she has done her work (not complete) and the other person’s behavior is not acceptable or what she is willing to tolerate? Up to each person to determine if they stay or leave a relationship, but if you make the choice to depart the relationship continue cleaning up your mind or you will bring in another person who behaves just like it. For example, to show you frustration or anger or whatever. She said she does not want to end it but it does not benefit her. michael said the words she used was presumption for him that she wanted to leave. She thought maybe the Responsibility Communication tool. Jeanie offered the Communication tool is not about ‘here is what you must do’ but to say this is what is up for me do you have a suggestion how I can heal? Dr Tim added it sounds like a mutual agreement conversation but not the responsibility tool, a different thing. She added it is a business relationship. Appropriate needs from each other and then determine if it is worth continuing. Jeanie added the thought around Gandhi and Smuts (note: in 1914 Gandhi was able to negotiate a lasting compromise, see the Smuts-Gandhi agreement.) While not resolving all the issues or agreeing, Gandhi said to Smuts “I hope this doesn’t come between us as men….” Tell your friend the business isn’t working for you and let’s go to lunch.
Caller Magda, commend Dr Tim, wonderful interview with Corinne. Re: Responsibility Communication tool is for ones own purpose and to gain information for her own healing, however, she can use responsible language and communicate with the other person that the business relationship does not work for her. Two different things and both work.
Caller Susan in PA, fantastic interview. Huge thanks. Question: they talked about the mind and that the EGO mind is not our best friend. michael said be gentle with yourself and move forward, no one is there yet. ‘As He becomes more I become less’ and we each have generations of hypocrisy and the work purpose is to incarnate and show up in your life. Your real BEING wants it and the physiology fights against it.
On the ‘HeartLand Aramaic Forgiveness’ App, correction, it asks for permission to access the internet but then it does also ask for permission to access your storage, that is an option needed if you choose to print a PDF.
Caller Roma, had a friend got a new iphone, got her to download the kid’s app. The interaction is great the way it responds. Tuesday night will be teaching the forgiveness work at a retreat.