IF YOU ARE NEW TO OUR TOOLS PLEASE READ THIS FIRST AND YOU WILL KNOW EXACTLY HOW TO PROCEED IN THE MOST BENEFICIAL WAY. TO USE THE FORGIVENESS – REALITY MANAGEMENT – WAKE-UP SHEETS FROM Why Is This Happening To Me…AGAIN?! WE SUGGEST:
YOU START BY
Download the Factors That Create Perception Poster (explained on MindShifter Radio Show January 21, 2020 – archive)
… and reading Chapter 24 from Why Is This Happening To Me…AGAIN?!, which offers instructions for doing a “Wake-up Sheet”. A link to the newly edited Chapter 24 is below. Begin with and stick with the comprehensive simplified version or the 7-step form until you are well versed in the use of the tools and then, if you wish, progressively move to the 12-Step and ultimately to the “long form.” Each one will take you a little deeper into your process.
- Detailed Instructions for Forgiveness Wake-up Sheet from NEWLY EDITED CHAPTER 24 (PDF format) of Why Is This Happening To Me … AGAIN?!
- Various Stress / Reality Management Wake-up Sheets – you’ll find the current 7-step worksheet used in our travel workshops as well as several versions simplified for a starter or child’s use taken from Julie Haverstick’s book.
- SPECIAL MP3s pulled from Shows with Instructions, Testimonials & Support on the Wake-up Sheets – a list of Live Radio Shows where key tools are explained or where we have walked callers through the entire process of the Reality Management Wake-up Sheet and support in the work. Also, MP3s of testimonials from using the wake-up sheets.
Click here to go to Radio Shows specifically related to addiction programs (MP3s) – Live Radio Shows where we specifically address AA and other programs and how they relate to our Forgiveness Work. Guest speakers assist in explaining their experience in both AA and familiarity with this work and their progress.
NEW: Now, just like the APP, you can complete your wake-up sheets online! Click here to be redirected* Choose from the 7-step Wake-up Sheet or an Abbreviated version or The Drag-on Cling-on Game. These are designed for the computer whereas the APP is designed for your mobile phone.(*Note: the online sheets are stored on Jeanie’s “Healing the Whole Woman” website)
Forgiveness: HeartLand Aramaic App is LIVE on both the Android (Google PlayStore) and the iPhone (iTunes App Store) with three options: Current 7-step Wake-up Sheet, Abbreviated Reality Management or The Drag-on Cling-on Game. The Dragon Game can also be printed off and played by writing (PDF format).
Part of the forgiveness process may mean facing addictions. “Want to Stop the Addiction? Where to Start” – a full page of first steps to changing your life from that of addiction. What is addiction? How do I know I am addicted?
Explanation of the Aramaic Forgiveness Process is available in a Power Point Presentation (click here) (created by Bill Costantino)
- Learn what tools to use when
- Hints for those among us “Who Have No Issues” – this is a list (not all inclusive) for those who pretend they have no issues (its everybody else) to do Wake-up Sheets on.
- What is it you really want (your goal)? We are taught to focus on what we don’t want. This is a tool to assist in changing your thoughts and words.
- Faster EFT Tapping – Robert Smith’s method of faster EFT tapping in conjunction with the forgiveness work is mentioned often on our MindShifter Radio Show.
Other Worksheets: (besides Reality Management Forgiveness Wake-up Sheets)
Click here to learn what tools to use when.
- APOLOGY TOOL (pdf format) – replacement for “I’m sorry” Listen to the Apology Tool MP3 of 2 radioshows edited & combined.
- A Gift Is For-Giving (PDF poster)
- ARAMAIC SIX KEYS TO LIFE (PDF format) – used to be Five keys but was changed to Six keys. You can watch both presentations: Five Keys Unity of Birmingham and Six Keys Unity of Blue Water Presentation on Zoom
- BE-ATTITUDES poster from Laws of Living (PDF format)
- CO-DEPENDENCY WORKSHEET revised 2017 from Co-Dependence to Inter-Dependence (PDF format)
- COMMITMENTS – Tool used in Healing Through Relationships, in 11 languages, plus First Person Commitment and Child’s Commitment and I Am Somebody
My Commitment – explanation behind the words – excerpt from July 7, 2020 show (MP3 format)
- LOVE EXCHANGE – a reconnect to Love & share it exercise
- RESPONSE-ABILITY COMMUNICATION RULES revised 2018 from COMMUNICATION, Did You Hear What I Think I Said? (PDF format)
Respons-Ability Communication Letter – David (PDF format)
Respons-Ability Communication Letter – Joy (PDF format)
Respons-Ability Communication Letter – to a Massage Therapist out of Integrity (PDF format)
- PHYSIOLOGICAL EFFECTS OF EMOTIONAL SUPPRESSION Chart revised 2017 from Empowered to Heal Youthing/Aging Chart (PDF format)
- GETTING THE STRESS Schematics of the Mind (Three filters) revised 2017 from Getting the Stress You Need (PDF format)
- FIVE SMOOTH STONES and five things HUMAN WILL can do (PDF format) and then listen to an excerpt from July 13, 2020 (MP3) explaning difference in Will and willpower.
- MIND/GOAL MANAGEMENT Worksheet revised 2017 from Getting the Stress You Need (PDF format)
- MINDSHIFTERS List- revised 2021 to reflect more accurate wording. Pick two numbers 1-3 and 1-13 – there are three sections with 13 statements per section (JPEG format)
- MINDSHIFTERS List– Women Healing Women pick a number 1-50 (PDF format)
- PERSONAL CODE EVALUATION FEEDBACK SHEET revised 2016 (PDF format) – assignments given in ten areas assessed by the PC Evaluation (this evaluation is taken in most intensive programs, email email@example.com if interested in purchasing additional evaluations)
- POWER PERSON WORKSHEET – who is your power person and what did you perceive their needs to be and how has it played out in your life? (PDF format) Listen to the excerpts (MP3s) of the radioshows from April 10 & 13, 2020. Also, MP3 excerpt from July 6, 2020
- PURPOSE Worksheet revised 2017 from Purpose, Personal Power and Commitment (PDF format)
- SYMPTOMS OF HEALING revised 2019 What does it mean to be willing to go through the symptoms of healing? What’s the difference in dis-ease process and a healing crisis (PDF format) Listen to excerpts from April 2020 radio show MP3 where michael explains a Healing Crisis and additional info on MP3 of May 4, 2020. Also, about thoughts and emotions becoming physical radioshow October 22, 2020 MP3. Another discussion on healing through past (even generational) issues and focusing on healing not symptoms January 27, 2021 MP3.
- THREE EARLY MEMORIES revised 2017 Worksheet from Healing Through Relationships (PDF format)
- WHEN I HEAL revised 2017 Worksheet from Healing Through Relationships (PDF format) used after the Three Early Memories exercise
- EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT RELEASE EXERCISE (MP3 format, michael directing the process)
Worksheet variations created by other Why teachers:
- NEW WORK IT OUT Worksheet variation (PDF format) used by Andracki support group in Pahrump, NV
- FORGIVENESS REALITY MANAGEMENT Worksheet variation of the 7-step (PDF format) by Marie-Josie Garceau
- FORGIVENESS PROCESS TOPICS Aligning intentions and perceptions – worksheet topics (PDF format) by Marie-Josie Garceau