Radio Show Archive – November 2018
Listen to MindShifter Radio with The Forgiveness Doctor, dr. michael ryce
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November 1 |
ACIM lesson 305 “There is a peace that Christ bestows on us. This lesson is designed to motivate us to do our forgiveness work. Christ’s vision is seen through forgiving eyes. So through forgiveness we will find “a peace so deep and quiet, undisturbable and wholly changeless, that the world contains no counterpart.” (1:1) Doesn’t that call to your heart? This is God’s promise to us, because it is His gift, already ours.” https://www.pathwaysoflight.org/acim_lessons/insights/lesson_305 What needs to change is the content of our minds…forgive what does not belong. michael shared a story and then changed one fact. I call you on my cell phone and say “Take a bus and meet me in Atlanta and we will take a plane to Toronto. I have a friend with a cabin on Lake Superior and we will go fishing for Sturgeon. That work for you? If it does and we can put it on your credit card and then I will have Canadian dollars to spend when we get there. Does that work for you?” Dr Tim, getting ready for tonight and will attempt to record and have the audio to make available if it is clear enough. CST 6:30 – 9:00pm – THIS SUPPORT GROUP CAN NOW BE ACCESSED AS A CONFERENCE THROUGH ZOOM. A couple people have asked about books for therapy. Dr Tim said if you are going to do any kind of deep work then you need a therapist who is doing their deep work. Can recommend a book title or two but read it with a critical eye to see if it fits for you. Every person is different. Ex. Melody Beattie “CoDependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself” the first part of the book is good and then she shifts and basically says a male therapist can’t help you. Some even watch the DVDs in the Support Group and some hear loving, respectful information and others hear negativity. It is perceived through their own braincells. Primarily take away that I am 100% responsible for the experience I am creating. Chatroom question: Dr Tim expand upon “Be with the question.” We have certain brain activity that is looking for the answer but when they reach a conclusion then brain activity drops tremendously. To live actively in the moment we should let go that we ‘know’ and move into observation and in the not knowing and we can be ushered into something new. She recommended to listen to October 11 show. Caller Roma, question about pain. It is a motivating factor even though no one wants it. What is the importance of pain? michael said it is designed to alert you to your issue. It is a fire alarm that says I am engaging in energy that does not belong and alerts me to make a change. It might be from 20 generations ago or something when I was 2 but all I have to do is look at the moment and engage in the process. You want pain as fast as possible so you can get to work and clean it up. The person who takes a pill to silence the informer gets deeper in the issue instead of getting out of it. Does not mean to not take a pill and sit in your pain but your work is addressing the cause too. Chatroom: I have come up with, after going within and asking what is causing the pain, sometimes I get that it is the energies that are coming in and I am resisting something. Does that sound possible? Jeanie responded We have energies in us already and outside events and circumstances can trigger it to activity but it is already inside. It’s like an FM station cannot be picked up by an AM radio, the signal is there but is not received, so if you are “receiving” a trigger from an outside source then it is because you have the receptor that matches the signal. |
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November 2 |
ACIM lesson 306 “The gift of Christ is all I seek today.” Fueled by the presence of love and light every cell will expand that to others. Re-membering – becoming a member once again to the world you never left. (meditation of expanding that beyond us to the world) Caller Shelly. Can’t get a person out of his mind after four years. He can’t imagine how you can love someone and then treat them the way he did. He said his life is perfect right now except for this one area. He has many people coming in and out of his life and no one impacts him like her. Instructions: touch your left shoulder and touch your right shoulder just get your awareness, then to your belly button, notice what it is like to move your awareness around. Hand to your heart. Now imagine 2 sharpened pencils, direct you to the place where this exercise can take place, one through your third eye and one through the top of your crown, take your attention to the place where the two pencil tips meet. Center your awareness to that place bring forward a picture in your mind of this person and say “Rukha I release attachment to …..” then notice does anything happen un your head, hands, feet? Shelly went from such depression and feeling sick to flying high then dropped into rage and sadness. Yet he did not recall the anger or saying he was pissed. |
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November 3 Listen Download |
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November 4 Listen Download |
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November 5 |
ACIM lesson 307 “Conflicting wishes cannot be my will.” ACIM lesson 308 “This instant is the only time there is.” ACIM lesson 309 “I will not fear to look within today.” The purpose of the work is to get to the point of experiencing the full blown presence of Love 24/7/365. Dr Tim’s thoughts for the day are of the challenge to step into a practice. To let go of the conditioning of time. Has been going through a training to build spiritual fitness. We do the physical fitness but often ignore the spiritual fitness. Ask “Who Am I?” and sit with the question. Also “Where are you? And when are you?” If this is the only time there is … then am I present in the moment? I have a lot of people who come through my office projecting fear into future or living in fear of the past. michael said one of the traps of the mind is when it does not understand something then it makes a determination. We need to be teachable. Be quiet and stand in the space and listen to Rukha d’Koodsha. Chatroom asked Dr Tim if he would give a review of last Thursday night’s Zoom Support Group. The input was people want the personal space to do a worksheet and process without it being recorded. Separation that everyone knows this is a radio show wide open to anyone whereas a support group is predicated that it is confidential. Dr Tim said the discussion was on the Who Am I? And the upset I feel has nothing to do with the moment in front of me. And becoming more aware of the ways I hallucinate and brainwash myself to believe the outside is cause. Take 100% responsibility for my thoughts and feelings and the use of the tools properly focused free me up to be in the world but not of the world. Caller Susan D. last night was the 7th week of Laws of Living and she breathed 6 people afterwards. Everyone got into unison when one person touched into some trauma, got a text from her later saying she walked the length of her house without her cane. Such a shift, she also went down 3 pant sizes when she began doing her work. When you do what you love it sure makes a difference. michael offered when you facilitate others you grow yourself. |
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November 6 |
ACIM lesson 310 “In fearlessness and love I spend today.” Thanks Michele for filling in. |
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November 7 |
ACIM lesson 311 “I judge all things as I would have them be.” Dr Tim hosted and switchboarded for michael and Jeanie. Thank you so much. Dr. Tim reviewed several worksheets he did from group last night through this morning. Also a YouTube audio he mentioned during the show. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ho8IHe_HPmM by Abraham Hicks. |
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November 8 |
ACIM lesson 312 “I see all things as I would have them be.” The world the Creator created will present to us what we are ‘asking for’ with the energy we hold. May not be what you think you asked for. We are contributors to what appears in our world. Dr Tim, ease and comfort in his body. Getting ready for Support Group tonight in Crystal Lake, can tune in and be part of the group. For more info https://ch4cs.com/mindshifter-support-groups/ Caller Julie had been in upset around evil and what target was she missing. Realized it is off target of Love. michael explained the definition of sin and evil. Julie said she saw evil as intentionally operating out of a mind with no space for God or Love as a priority. michael said remove ‘conscious’ from that definition, consciousness is from being. It is unconscious accummulation that runs the mind (from non-being. Julie said like the lesson today we see as we would have it to be – we structure it. michael said there is no ‘conscious non-being mind’ Julie reference (resist or) insist a system of operation that is off target. michael said it is not so easy to just do something differently. When we have generations in our database that are off target then we automatically run within that process until we have removed the roots of perception that drive us to do behaviors off the target. It is an awakening. FYI Ms Julie, the Drag-on Cling-on Game is now online thanks to your support, as well as the 7-step wake-up sheet and Abbreviated wake-up sheet. http://healingthewholewoman.whyagain.org/worksheets/ Same opportunity as the Mobile Apps from Google PlayStore and the Apple Store. Chatroom Cathy said yesterday’s show was powerful. Dr Tim said it is not bravery – it is trusting the process and using the tools and it is about allowing and being in the mode of surrender. Caller Brenda, asked michael to expand on (offer insights) to the question from Personal Code Evaluation homework, “what is the judgement I am protecting?” michael gave the example of a politician being asked a question and he projected onto a reporter that he was rude and is an enemy of the people. The politician is protecting that those are his issues. Everyone has a different construct or reality about the same scenario. If I am not in a connected space when I look at a situation then I have something unconscious that is driving me. Brenda asked if one person perceived the politician as being out of line and another saw the reporter as being out of line then they each have a unique to themself construct to look at. If you can just observe a situation, no hostility or fear, then no judgement involved. Where is the judgement around an observation? Jeanie added that question is under the section on Love of Truth (what judgement am I protecting that blocks me from seeing the Truth around any given area in my life). Example look at other ‘challenge areas’ on the evaluation, someone with nutrition challenge might say they eat good and deny there is anything wrong about their nutrition, if someone has a love of others challenge they may resist the thought that they don’t express love to others, or a belief system and disagreement between denominations and refuse to let go of their belief to consider the other might be in truth. Receive information and if it does not fit throw it out but at least receive it. What jusgement do we hold to that we won’t look at new information? Caller Judy Phelan, triggered in her, how people put themselves out in the public and then have to deal with fake news. Bigger issue that comes forward. Can have compassion for these politicians whether they are participating or not how they have to go through the reaming to accomplish what they are out there to do. Whether guilty or not, whether they participated or not, the judgement that lands on them is great. If we cannot look at them tyhrough love then we add to that energy. michael said when the scriptures talked about not being a false witness verses sophistry. How to stand against fake news “IF” by Rudyard Kipling |
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November 9 |
ACIM lesson 313 “Now let a new perception come to me.” The source of your perceptual construct is internal and tells more about what is going on for you than what is external. I am willing daily for a new perception to come to me. Scriptures say “I die daily for Christ” and Y’Shua said “to live you must die”… Both of those mean the past generations must die, not physical death, in order for conscious being can live. The work of dying daily, getting rid of hostility and fear, forgiving until you reach the possibility of being love 24/7/365. Expand my awareness to being in the flow with the Creator, the perfect. A vision that can come to me. Practice the skill enough to be able to stand in the mind of Christ so powerfully that you can see the person (who might be seen as deserving punishment and condemnation) as the BEING they are and flush out of you and them the energy that needs to go? You can then reinforce the truth in you and them. And you may need to hold someone accountable and still be the active presence of love. Movie: “Courageous” by Affirm Films, about a group of policemen who take a vow of integrity, when one of their own goes out of integrity the one holds him accountable and yet shows him love and even mentors this man’s son while he is in prison. Another policeman who arrests a young man involved in a gang and yet he visits him in prison and supports and mentors him. Neither falls into judgment and are there as a loving support for them and yet holds them accountable for their behavior. Dr Tim these tools are productive for himself and he shares with others as is his purpose in life. Had their Support Group last night was also via Zoom (https://ch4cs.com/mindshifter-support-groups/) Go to his page to hear the audio (less any processing) of the talk. If you find the audios useful share with another who might benefit from it. michael offered his appreciation to Dr Tim Re-read the poem “IF” by Rudyard Kipling more slowly. Dr Tim said it addresses the issue of special relationships and if we are in truth then we are all one in the infinite creation and successes and failures do not increase or decrease my worth. Everyone is doing the best they can in the moment with the resources they have. Why do you call me good? None of us is good except the Creator God. One of the topics last night was Purpose, Personal Power and Commitment and to recognize natural abilities and how to reconcile the idea that life is unfolding and everything is part of the Creation and yet resonating circumstances to us (Law of Attraction). Thoughts we share are not necessarily the answer but directs us to listen in the questioning stance. Tune into intuition. We take responsibility for what is arising in us at the moment. michael offered, the creation the story where humans are told to go forth, replenish and multiply, Replenish means bring the creation to completion, we get to make choices about the creation we participate in. Do we weld the scepter or not? We are here for a purpose. Look at Mahatma Gandhi and his moving the British army out of India from the state of being Love, Martin Luther King followed his example in America. Y’Shua stood as Love regardless of what happened in his world. Bring Creation to the next level by doing your part. Refer to “The End of Poverty” film. More people have water and fewer starving because people are doing the “leading edge” of their capabilities. Watch the film “Gandhi” and he stands before Col. Jan Smuts and says he will not back down and yet he hopes it does not come between them as men. |
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November 10 Listen Download |
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November 11 Listen Download |
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November 12 |
Michele opened the switchboard for Jeanie sharing this is her son’s eternal day and the experience of opening her being of Love at his birth. Then shared a breath session with a lady and the energy moving through her. ACIM lesson 314 “I seek a future different from the past.” The drama and trauma of past generations or choose to live differently. michael said it is different than the culture teaches us to look at the gifts given by another regardless of their presence and shared about valuing his mother’s gifts after her death. Dr Tim practicing at deeper levels that he creates the negative emotions when someone leaves or moves away or drops their body. He can focus on the gifts given to him by their presence when they were here in his life and allow that to fill his energy system when he thinks of them. Got a good recording of his discussing that process in 2 parts on his website https://www.ch4cs.com/post/saying-goodbye-to-good-people-without-saying-goodbye-to-good-memories and https://ch4cs.com/media-page/audio/saying-goodbye-to-good-people-without-saying-goodbye-to-good-memories-hour-2/ Excert from Q&A Way of Mastery says Joy is a quality of mind of the recognition of the truth of what is. Pleasure is like pain, a temporary sensation or movement of energy. michael referred to Alanis Morissette “Madness” says “the madness in me is brought out in the presence of you, now I know the madness lives on when you are not in the room.” Jeanie called in to add, we want to honor the Veterans this day! John 15:13 “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.” The statement is often looked at as one dying for his friends; however, the veterans “lay down their lives” or “set aside their lives” to do what they feel called to do. They are dedicated to hard work and sacrifice towards making life better and they often experience the result of setting themself aside (laying down their lives) physically, mentally, emotionally and psychologically. We thank each of you and also your families. michael added to honor is to bring love in action toward them. We need to restore the veterans to return to them what they have had taken from them at the price of war. Michael Coughlin is an example of his life changing when he began using these tools which he now teaches. To really honor a vet, share with a vet this technology so they know things are changeable. Documentary “Who will stand?” intro says “they taught us how to survive in Iraq, no one taught us how to survive once we got home.” https://www.amazon.com/Who-Will-Stand/dp/B002UICXOG Caller Julie, puts herself in the state of a veteran when they go into service for America to be all they can be. Where can we put in contributions? They are depressed and given drugs but we need to uplift them and give the gifts we have to give to keep it alive. Offer hope. We used to expect America to be great and now we seem to be going down. Michele said there are some facts like a third of the homeless people are veterans. The VA System is overwhelmed with the waiting lists. She is also a veteran. Dr Tim said the filter he places on things, whether true or not, every person is doing the best they can at the moment with the resources they have. And echo that these tools are so powerful and effective he puts much of his time, intelligence, money and energy into the process. Mind Structures of darkness, hostility and fear then we give rise to circumstances in hostility and fear and if we forgive then the reason behind hostility and fear are gone and we have a Mind Structure of Love and participate in the healing of active presence of love. |
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November 13 |
ACIM lesson 315 “All gifts my brothers give belong to me.” (Thanks Michele for covering switchboard) |
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November 14 |
ACIM lesson 316 “All gifts I give my brothers are my own.” I get the original and ‘they’ get a carbon copy! Dr Tim had support group with 8 people plus him. The pattern of who shows up when is constantly amazing. Some came for their 3rd visit and some from a long time ago. Lots of discussion about the connection and dream of separation. Called to a practical set of tools and approach. Be focused and aware in the moment. michael referred to the Creator saying if we are in alignment with Love then our steps will be directed and we cannot be touched. Refer to “Hacksaw Ridge” movie. A youngman has signed up to go to war with the knowing he will not kill anyone but will be on the battlefield (weaponless) to heal and bring light to the darkness. Caller Camille, going across state to make her final move to Palm Beach. Working daily to stay connected with as much loving presence with Robert as possible during this separation. Too much conflict and misunderstanding. I am working on accepting the fact that it is not about Robert or his behaviors but my being stuck in not finding support in the relationship. He says he will change but he has lip service but never follows up. michael offered if he does not have the brain cells he can’t make the change he wants. She feels she needs time and space to heal herself. How can she put into regulatory speech a response to him. She does not know what her love with him is. michael asked Camille, have you cancelled your need for a “quality of attention”? And realize “LOVE” is not something you give to or get from another person. That quality of love has to come from you knowing yourself as that love. Offer to craft a request of him (more willingness does not mean more capacity), such as ‘would you join me in working on the skill of forgiveness?’ where he does not have that skill you can mentor him in coming forward with that skill in a way that works where you experience a comradery. To see if he is willing to be mentored and taught, and he has the right to say no. She feels encouraged to try teaching him the worksheet again. Let him know this would be one way of communicating better. michael offered to bring in the responsibility communication…perhaps you receive his input as a put-down instead of support (referring to Robert’s comments about her doing this work and continual meetings with Julie, Linda and Vernie). Let him know how you are experiencing his responses and what would work for you. If he is willing to do anything then say this is where you can show that willingness. Jeanie mentioned that we are 6 weeks away from Julie’s first 10-week session of Pay-it-Forward Program, begins January 1, 2019. This is a FREE gift for registering for FFF&W 2019. We will get Julie on the show to talk more about it. Give yourself a Christmas Gift of these sessions with Julie by registering to participate in FFF&W. Caller Cindy from IL, someone in her life is choosing to ‘punish’ her by not speaking to her and she is angry and hurt about it. What do I do? michael explained denial and responsibility and suggested worksheets on her anger and disappointment and hurt. Collapse those things and you will likely find the energetic dynamic will change. We unconsciously bounce off of each other and the things we have dissociated from. |
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November 15 |
ACIM lesson 318 “In me salvation’s means and end are one.” we are individualized yet connected as part of the whole. “What we are looking for is what is looking!” quote by St Francis of Assisi This show is about extending the knowledge of first century Aramaic Forgiveness. Caller Marlene in Vero Beach, FL needs help with forgiveness. Was seeing a life coach for 8-1/2 years and helped her a lot, introduced her to ACIM yet at the same time her son (Ryan) & daughter-in-law moved to the area and then they began seeing the same coach. She began to feel uncomfortable but kept going because of her son & daughter-in-law. Her husband and I rescue dogs and he said I should not adopt another dog and when I did the kids told him I did and he wrote a scathing email that I would not listen to him. I quit going to him and now my son & daughter-in-law have kicked me out of the business and won’t speak to me. They spent the last 2 Thanksgiving & Christmases with him and not me. I don’t know what to do. I am stuck. I can’t forgive him. michael said if you could resolve this in one fail swoop what would it be? She wishes her son would call and say they’ve quit seeing him and want to see her. michael said the core of resolution with your son is the present goal. Cancelling that goal collapses the confusion and allows you to look at the next layer that is under the surface. Sounds bizarre. michael walked her through a wake-up sheet, tap into the sweetness & pure love of her son as a newborn and cancel the goal for resolution with my son. Where does your mind go? She does not want to do it, she wants to hold to the goal. Releasing it brings relief, feels like releasing something she can’t control anyway. michael walked her through the emotional release exercise – release all attachment to Ryan. She felt a release in her heart area and then said she had not breathed that deeply in a long time. For 9 months she has been trying to figure it out, did not realize she was codependent with Ryan, been looking at the wrong thing. michael said just be with the presence of love and allow the breath to flush through your structure, be in the process for now. (If appropriate we can continue the conversation tomorrow) Caller Lucy in Cincinnati, OH question about the exercise can it be used with anything? not just relationships? michael said yes in any arena but allow the process to unfold and give a couple of days in between times. Remember our definition of denial is thinking something outside is the cause of what is going on inside. He pointed out she said “I have strong emotions over this circumstance…” the circumstance triggered it but the emotions were already inside. michael explained confusion as part of healing. |
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November 16 |
ACIM lesson 320 “My Father gives all power unto me.” We are all one and what the Creator ‘wills’ for us is for us to let go of the hostility and fear that separates us from Love. Then all power is available to us. We are to be the hands and feet of the Creator – what would the Creator be doing? Caller Marlene in Vero Beach, FL called back in and expressed the ‘gut punch’ to realize she was co-dependent with her son. michael explained co-dependence. She asked another question, what do you mean about confusion being a good thing? michael explained energetic dynamics that tend to play out until we are finished with them (refer to a healing crisis in his book). When healing we will pass back through the dynamics so the symptoms look the same as when the dis-eased energy went in. When symptomatic you ask 4 questions to determine if it is dis-ease or healing: Am I doing more of the right things? Had I hit a new level of vitality? What’s happening with elimination? Am I craving the drug used to stuff it down the first time? Looks like Physical any physical symptom and low energy, Mentally any negative thought and confusion and Emotionally any negative feeling and depression. When the old thoughts (lies) mix with new thoughts (truth) then there is a mixture of the two and confusion happens. michael gave invitation for Co-Dependent worksheet, list of everyone who has offended you, what they did (how they offended you), punishment thought, your advice to them then the world of perception is constructed based on what energy we hold, so our advice to them is for ourselves. “How will I apply my advice to them in my life.” Write a letter to them telling them and send it to them. (are you breathing?) No, you don’t have to send it but it is for you. “If you spot it, you got it.” Refer to similarities with AA https://whyagain.org/healing/articles/386-mp3s-on-12-steps-and-forgiveness Caller Lucy in Cincinnati, OH said when michael talked about being a good ancester she started weeping. It is a process. Another layer of the veil to process through. Sometimes you will revisit with more intensity but less trauma or attachment. A couple of questions disappeared while you were talking to previous caller. About the presence of love – can get there in a worksheet but when it is a live situation and in her face she can’t get there. michael said it is not a learned skill yet, it takes practice, practice, practice. One way to develop the skill is the Love Exchange (he explains how to do it). She said it is generational to worry, when her daughter was born she was more worried than loving. michael said the energy will take time to resolve it but when worry moves in you, stop, take a breath and tap into a moment in time to come to the forefront of your thoughts. Until that is the default setting. The truth is you are safe, abundant and taken care of – time to let worry go and step into trust. The truth is you were born to be the presence of love where safety and caring and being cared for is natural and forgive the rest. Higher vitality means moving through more quickly when there is an opening and hit a high level things move quickly. When low vitality if the trauma is bigger it can feel like a plateau and that nothing is happening or like slugging through mud. Stay with it. Breathe. 77×70 to get through the issues of all the people in our bloodline, we build into our genes the experiences. Beauty and Power and Abundance verses the hostility and fear. Early adopter of the work has more work to do. ACIM says millions yet unborn will benefit from the work you do. Caller Susan B in PA, along the same lines, in Luke Jesus has his feet washed with a woman’s tears and drying them with her hair. Jesus says, “I tell you that her many sins are forgiven, so she showed great love. But the person who is forgiven only a little will love only a little.” She loves much, active love moves through and forgiveness happens. Continue on Monday. |
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November 17 Listen Download |
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November 18 Listen Download |
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November 19 |
ACIM lesson 321 “Father, my freedom is in You alone.” Are you willing to step into the space where your primary relationship is a relationship with Love (God, the Creator). Where that is your default, to trust Love. Dr Tim’s blog https://blog.ch4cs.com/ for access to the edited recordings from Zoom, his Thursday night support group (teleconferenced). He edited the August 6th show where Susan called in and was in terror and worked through a wake-up sheet. Perfect example to share with folks of what is possible. Will send link to Jeanie to add to the website. Continuation from Friday … Jeanie read, Luke 7:36-50 A Woman Washes Jesus’ Feet. Jesus went into the Pharisee’s house and sat at the table. A sinful woman in the town learned that Jesus was eating at the Pharisee’s house. So she brought an alabaster jar of perfume and stood behind Jesus at his feet, crying. She began to wash his feet with her tears, and she dried them with her hair, kissing them many times and rubbing them with the perfume. When the Pharisee who asked Jesus to come to his house saw this, he thought to himself, “If Jesus were a prophet, he would know that the woman touching him is a sinner!” Jesus said to the Pharisee, “I have something to say to you.” And he tells him a parable “Two people owed money to the same banker. One owed five hundred coins and the other owed fifty. They had no money to pay what they owed, but the banker told both of them they did not have to pay him. Which person will love the banker more?” Simon, the Pharisee, answered, “I think it would be the one who owed him the most money.” Jesus said to Simon, “You are right.” Then Jesus turned toward the woman and said to Simon, “Do you see this woman? When I came into your house, you gave me no water for my feet, but she washed my feet with her tears and dried them with her hair. You gave me no kiss of greeting, but she has been kissing my feet since I came in. You did not put oil on my head, but she poured perfume on my feet. I tell you that her many sins are forgiven, so she showed great love. But the person who is forgiven only a little (meaning the Pharasee) will love only a little.” Then Jesus said to her, “Because you believed, you are saved from your sins. Go in peace.” michael commented, it is the woman be-living, tapped into such a powerful presence of love and realigned to being who she was and joining in with the energy of Y’Shua and flushes her from all that is less than love. Her gratitude is a symptom of human life and she expressed her love towards Y’Shua. Greater sin, loved the most. The Pharisee stood back and did not even show common courtesy. Susan said she is eager to see him and sees he has not been treated as he should be and proceeds to wash his feet and kiss them. How does it happen – are her sins forgiven because she loved much or is she loved much so then her sins are forgiven? michael offered the sadness is hers not for YShua, maybe triggered by him, she perhaps had a lifetime of lies about who she was but when she taps back into who she is (Love) then it is her gratitude and love that was a flood (expressed by tears) that cleansed her of her sin (removal of the energies off the mark). Refer “The Passion of the Christ” introduced Aramaic to the world. Gibson captures how Mary attempts to get to YShua and can’t bring herself to do it (as he is bleeding and carrying his cross) until she processes a time when he was a child and fell. Then she goes to YShua and he says behold I make all things new. |
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November 20 |
Special Gratitude Show on Thursday. In preparation for that michael said he has been in appreciation for these principles and having the opportunity to share it and the technology ro bring it forward to the world. ACIM lesson 323 “I gladly make the “sacrifice” of fear.” Would I be willing to live in a world where fear has no part in my life or choice making? Give up all sense of loss and fear and pain and return to the eternal joy you were born for. How would your world change when only Love remains? Refer to Dr Tim’s https://www.ch4cs.com/post/saying-goodbye-to-good-people-without-saying-goodbye-to-good-memories and https://ch4cs.com/media-page/audio/saying-goodbye-to-good-people-without-saying-goodbye-to-good-memories-hour-2/ and https://ch4cs.com/media-page/audio/grief-and-loss-segment-from-mindshifters-radio-2-1-2016/ Caller Lucy from Cincinnati, asked for an explanation of the Emotions/Thoughts Chart. michael explained and then gave example of driving to visit family and feeling the emotion of terror and tapping into the thought behind it and thinking about an incident where home was destroyed, maybe generationally. May not be cognitive of the event but energetically. Jeanie explained the chart and the Feeling Wheel. Then Lucy had a second thought, her father always worried and she realizes she is the same. If there is nothing to worry about she will find something to be anxious about. michael offered you are being faithful to the Power Person’s behavior. Question yourself, does this make sense to live this way? If not, choose to do something else, give yourself permission to change. Instead of ‘waiting for the other shoe to drop’ change the mind link to ‘good follows good’ Listen to body sensations too. |
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November 21 |
Getting ready for the celebration of appreciation and gratitude and thanks tomorrow. ACIM lesson 325 “All things I think I see reflect ideas.” michael explained “I think I see” that our eyes are an antenna that brings in a frequency that then fires whatever is internal and projected as a picture in our mind. We do not see directly what is actually out there. And is based on the goal we hold at the moment. Nothing out there causes anything inside of us. Only the Creator’s ideas reflect the Truth – our ideas are dreams. Dr Tim has a full load of patients and running errands and getting ready for tomorrow. Last night Support Group, several openings for self and others. michael expressed gratitude for this work of Y’Shua. Caller Julie H., Pay-it-Forward Program. Spoke about a ‘new’ wake-up sheet, will be 9-steps and ready to fly by January 1st with the first 8 people to register for the FFF&W. Has been doing a ‘pilot’ program with a few students and making changes. Changed ‘trigger’ to ‘react’ because there are subtle reactions. She said she was working on her own Personal Code. New energy. michael gave more information about Food, Fun, Forgiveness & Work Program. Fun part will include a trip to Branson to the College of the Ozarks (a gourmet cuisine buffet), Work Projects during the day on the property, Classes in the Evening, Ari and the awesome food (both cooked and raw). The energy of the participants was amazing and everyone had worked with Julie prior to arriving and doing their own process. HeartLand has never looked better. There will be a discount for anyone attending the FFF&W and then staying to do a regular intensive. To do the sessions with Julie you have to register before January 1st. Jeanie thanked Aida for jumping in and contacting (email and phone calls) every Support Group on our website to see if they were still active. I will be changing the website after the holiday weekend. We have lots of projects like this, if you are willing to help, and be committed to follow through, email jeanie@whyagain.org and let us know your skills. michael also invited people to financially support us. We are not touring but sitting still to care for Jeanie’s Dad and have committed to caring for our new granddaughter through April. Unity of Birmingham contacted michael to come in February 2019, will be on the website soon. Caller Susan D., offered one thing she does for building her MindShifter Group is she’s on Meet Up. She has 600+ people and she does What’s App on her phone and sends a reminder of the radio show and her meetings on Tuesdays. She had 11 last night. It is her “Soul Food” Susan agreed to be listed as a contact to help others start a group. Wilmington still needs a lot of help especially inland (from the hurricane). |
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November 22 |
Happy Thanksgiving Day! ACIM lesson 326 “I am forever an Effect of God (Love).” Cause and Effect are singular in Aramaic so if we are connected to Love then we show the attributes of Love. Forgive or remove all other things that keep you from being that truth. michael shared https://www.happierhuman.com/benefits-of-gratitude/ and strongly urge you to begin to build the benefits of gratitude with a journal either on your phone as an app or a written journal. He went over the benefits of gratitude. People tapped into gratitude will improve in every area of their lives. Research reporting on those who spend a minimal 5 minutes in journalling gratitude. Jeanie read her post of I Am Thankful. Caller Roma, feeling some sadness for those in California who have experienced loss. Breathe! michael invites her to lay down and do a full stillpoint breathing session and feel the grief that you contribute to the world. When you let that grief go you add energy to something different. What we hold is what we contribute to the energy. The desire to wail is about me not them, so I choose to bring joy and love to the situation and build that energy. 12 minutes left on the show but noone pressed 1 so we closed early. |
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November 23 |
ACIM lesson 327 “I need but call and You will answer me.”
Dr Tim & Michele covered the show while we performed dedication service for our new granddaughter. |
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November 24 Listen Download |
NO SHOWS ON WEEK-ENDS. SEE YOU MONDAY. |
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November 25 Listen Download |
NO SHOWS ON WEEK-ENDS. SEE YOU MONDAY.
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November 26 |
ACIM lesson 327 “I need but call and You will answer me.” (REPEAT) Need to be willing to let my mind be still enough to hear the response that will come to answer my call. Instructions straight from the Creator. Dr Tim is in a conference investing in supporting and assisting us in this work. Thanks to Dr Tim & Michele for covering for us on Friday while we did a dedication service for our new grand-daughter, Arya Reign. Jeanie shared gratitude for the whole Thanksgiving week. Caller Susan B., testimonials: 1) did a worksheet with grandson Luke (confused and depressed) and he went from a 9 to 2, bearing sweet fruit. 2) did a worksheet with her son who finished but did not get maximum benefit – help with completing. Anxious, Fear and Trapped were his feelings, patients must do well for him to be OK and needs to make enough money and everyone needs to like him. Someone is badmouthing him and while they are out-of-line her son cannot let it go. michael said have him listen to the show Dr Tim edited where Susan did a worksheet on anxiety. Also the show where someone in the church was badmouthing her. Sounds like a generational issue. Undo thought disorders that have plagued the whole family so a long time. Mark Wolynn’s book, “It Didn’t Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle” Susan said he gave up the goal of being responsible to fix everyone. Not his responsibility. Introduce MindShifter (it is a thought used to look at unconscious thoughts resonated by the MS): “It is safe & healing and I am always admired, even when my patients die.” There is a complex of thoughts about approval and success. His new “enlightened” goals were not clear. He did say “If one of his patients were hit by a bus then he would be OK because he knew that would not be his fault.” He realized he was more worried about himself than his patients, that was a big ah-ha. She can remember when he started first grade and he could not read (was dyslexic) and she thought to herself that she did something wrong. michael said that is her work to do around the thoughts she held and it can help open the space for him to ferret out his errant pieces and clean them up. michael invited Susan to look in our worksheets https://whyagain.org/images/PDF/PHYSIOLOGICAL_EFFECTS_OF_EMOTIONAL_SUPPRESSION_rev2017.pdf It breaks down the aspects of what shuts down when emotions are suppressed. Depression used to be a dominant expression but now it is just a corner that shows up occassionally, not fully identified and invested in it any longer. Living more in the presence of Love, with anxiety and depression not running the show. Dr Mary Neal, drowned in a kayak accident, she had a near life experience and was sent back to finish her work here on earth. Her books are about that experience and lesson learned to live a joy-filled life. However, she later lost her oldest son and sensed sorrow even though she knew where he was and what he was experiencing. michael suggested watching “Saved by the Light” Dannion Brinkley’s true story. Learned “you are a powerful spiritual being and love makes the difference” and at times the old self raises its head and yet over time he cannot give up the near life experience. |
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November 27 |
ACIM lesson 330 “I will not hurt myself again today.” change to “I am willing to live as Love, the truth of who I am.” HeartLand Aramaic Forgiveness Apps on both iPhone and Android. Question in chatroom, is there still translation work happening on the Aramaic texts? Need funding to go back to translation work. What is happening now is taking what has been translated in words and seeing if it is a true translation by putting it in the ‘classroom of life’ to see if it works. Key word for this work is ‘forgiveness’ which is not letting someone off the hook but going inside and removing what energies are off the mark from Love. Caller Jill, Wilmington, said she uses the Forgiveness App and always feels thankful it is there and available. Many times she does wake-up sheets at night and does not have to turn on a light or find a pen. And one of the things she notices is CoDependence is up for her. Related to control and her child who teaches her lessons. He has been waking up between 2 and 4AM a lot. Twisting herself in knots to sleep through the night so she can too. Sleep and anxiety go hand-in-hand. Then irritation comes up. (she said she was irritated because…) Discussion brought forth ideas of the need to control her son, omnipotence, responsible for everyone (was even responsible for her father growing up) and unconsciousness. MindShifter: “It is safe & healing and I love it when there is nothing in my life that I can control.” Resistence to loving that. Will bring forth what it might be like to be helpless. Having a child is like your unconscious mind hanging out in true living color and dolby sound. They don’t have a stop button and will bring up everything we have never dealt with. Deal with your childhood issues and it will open the space for him too. She said she was raged at as a kid and tends to rage. She may say “I have a lot up for me and looks like some may be up for you – how about we go breathe together?” and explain how you both take on family dynamics and that you want to change it and that you know the truth about you both as love. She felt terrified when she was raged at and knows her son is terrified when she does it. What also comes up is abandonment. Work towards being the space of love together. Introduce him to the Drag-on Cling-on Game. |
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November 28 |
ACIM lesson 332 “Fear binds the world. Forgiveness sets it free.” Awaken to the real, the true. The World as the Creator created it is ‘Actuality’ and each person has a ‘Reality’ about the ‘Actuality’ based on their own internal energetic perception formed from hostility or fear or love. Forgiveness makes the space for active love to enter and to live fully conneted to that love (your birthright). Breathe into that presence that you are! Caller Susan D., Happy Thanksgiving, Support Group last night had 12 people and was about Communication. Divine plan to get to experience it before class. Printed out sheets and watched about 30 minutes then stopped. Wanted to take it to the next level. First made commitment and ask them to hold the space. michael corrected that the commitment aspect is for self to frame and set a goal to communicate responsibly then invite them to support you in that. Doug agreed. Then she went over the objective facts that she was printing the sheets on draft and asked do you know which dpi I should use? He went over to the printer and took over the job and I ran out of ink. I wanted to replace the cartridge and he said no and continued. Then she realized frustration came up when he stepped in and took over (her mother would always say you sit over there and watch and she did all the work, never encouraged to do it.) And the thought was I’m too stupid (same as with Mom). Realize it is an unresolved issue with Mom. Problem solving would be for him to let you do it but then you would not have the opportunity to heal the frustration and belief / presumption that she is stupid and incapable. So in step 4 you ask Doug for assistance in healing your issue of frustration and old pain about people thinking you are stupid and incapable. Then Step 5, Do you have any ideas? (michael roll played) I have issues too when this energy comes up in you so perhaps we can reverse roles after this but I notice you hold your breath. Perhaps we can take 10 deep breaths together. Step 6 Susan wants to do wake-up sheets around the interaction with Doug and also about Mom. Step 7 problem solving, might look like I realize this is a deep old issue and it may rear its head again so I’d like your agreement that in the future especially if we are in a time crunch, please hear me and cooperate with my request of you instead of taking over. Then he may want to communicate the 7 steps and come to feeling frustration and it is impossible to please you. Stress was up for both of them. The Perfect Storm. Thanks to Magda for going through the Communication process with her a few years ago. Start a MindShifters Support Group in your area. Susan has been going on 6 or 7 years and she is now also teaching 8 week Laws of Living Classes. Encourage everyone to step in and hold the space and watch it happen. michael pointed out Susan said ‘the room is full of angels and we move forward’ rather than quiting when they feel they are by themself. Change the thought of failure to commitment to keep keeping on. Susan offered she realized this work was her lifeline and she needed a community to support her when she went unconscious, she needed to create that. And the starfish story, made a difference in that one. Y’Shua was alone and yet he kept going for those coming after him. Caller Lucy in Cincinnati. (michael encouraged her to start a support group) request help doing a sheet on grandmother. continue tomorrow |
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November 29 |
ACIM lesson 333 “Forgiveness ends the dream of conflict here.” when Love is active and present then hostility and fear melts away, love lights the way to truth. Dr Tim returned from a conference, glad to be back. “Best laid plans of mice and men often goes astray” Storm and cancellation of flights but still made it into a nice evening. ‘Wonder how this is going to work out’ but his son’s flight also was cancelled and we were both in Ohare airport and had a nice walk and dinner and talked together. I can either allow upset and miss the blessings or allow and surrender. Client this morning is living out all the problems in Guy Finley’s book, it is great to see changes when people use the tools. Caller Lucy, continuation from yesterday, back story of her grandmother being in a nursing home and not being able to help her. michael offered notice you had to make a choice and you approach it with a broken heart (her words). Breathe into that and imagine that you are putting your grandmother in a space where there is professional care and bring to her the presence of love instead of pain and heartbreak. We have to conceive to give birth. If we conceive from hostility and fear then we give birth to an experience of the same painful energy. michael shared his last week with his mom before she passed away. Lucy said she is not close to being there. Caller George, extreme pain. Breathe with him – open and breathe into the pain. |
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November 30 |
ACIM lesson 334 “Today I claim the gifts forgiveness gives.” Aramaic meaning of word “illusions” is “measured” – perceptions or dreams are gone with forgiveness and we can experience actuality. Treasures Love has given. Caller Judy from MO, from yesterday’s show. Is there a difference in giving love away and being the presence of love? michael explained, a newborn IS LOVE they are not LOVING you. It is what you are made of not something we do to another. Jeanie added that Ari (our fabulous chef) shared that the old brick bakeries had so much yeast within the walls that they no longer needed to add yeast to the flour to make bread. The impact was automatic and expansive just being in the space. Caller Marlene, thank you for the tools, the website, the app and acknowledge all your work. (michael added Jeanie did the app and Susan & Daniel for assisting in the technical aspect of the website). Forgiveness – still have an issue with this ‘life coach’ who cost me my business and relationship with my family. michael talked about handling the issue in you around vengence and then being free of hostility & fear ask myself is it my job to hold them legally accountable and if it is then from a space of love follow your guidance. It is holding them accountable, not punishment. There is a difference. Marlene realizes she has a lot of work to do on herself before getting to that point with him. Caller George. pain is overwhelming and the time to mend is worse. It has been 6 weeks and 3 more weeks to go. Hope for outpatient so can spend time with daughter. Hard to have faith when in constant pain. Over whelmed. Go to http://alltheragedoc.com/ and link on site to the video. Dr. Sarno was a back surgeon but the later years of his practice he had greater success with patients teaching them that back pain was unresolved rage. The pain is real but Dr Sarno said when we hold anger unresolved then the energy causes muscle restriction and tightening and that shuts down blood flow and oxygen supply which manifests as a physical disorder and pain. |
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