Radio Show Archive – July 2020

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A few links mentioned while Jeanie was hosting the second hour

Physiological Effects of Emotional Suppression chart https://whyagain.org/images/PDF/PHYSIOLOGICAL_EFFECTS_OF_EMOTIONAL_SUPPRESSION_rev2017.pdf

Adrenal Fatigue https://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/adrenal-fatigue-is-it-real#1

Kidney Flush https://whyagain.org/images/PDF/MasterCleanse.pdf

Quote from Dr Robert Brody (https://brodynd.com/conditions-treated/mental-health/) Healing occurs from the top down, inside out, from most important to least important and the reverse order of occurrence.  As you can imagine that one of the most important parts of your being is your spiritual, emotional, and mental bodies. These are the areas that need to be fixed first before anything will get fixed on your physical body” And dr. michael ryce would add to the degree you are vital enough to handle it.

Several suggestions on sleep issues including B6 and cancelling the goals

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Second hour Jeanie replayed a combination of 3 shows: michael explaining forgiveness work then Jeanie walking Lynn through a worksheet and then reading Jeanie’s Revelation (written in 2004 after first being introduced to this work).

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Jeanie spoke about the Revelation she read yesterday https://whyagain.org/healing/in-jeanie-s-view/  And as a ‘newbie’ Jeanie’s viewpoint on each workshops https://whyagain.org/healing/in-jeanie-s-view/

Caller Susan B and Jeanie talk about Terminate Stay Resident https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Terminate_and_stay_resident_program on the computer and in our CBM – Jeanie shared her experience of abuse and disassociation and that 29 years later she still did it but michael knew how to assist in removing the decision to ‘leave’ and move into choice to stay

Caller Celinda offer to Susan that you can’t abandon yourself or another

Caller Camille, working on the frequent urination condition (since 2004) – latest worksheet session with Julie discovered it might have begun when in college and she would get into arguments with her father and her escape was to go to the bathroom. Word links need to change. michael offered ‘conflict = healing’ and MindShifter: It is safe and healing and easy for me to stay present with conflict until there is loving resolution, especially with my father (and son). Stay present.

Starting Sept 13th until Dec 13th, 14 intense weeks, every Sunday 2-5 and Tues 5-6 EST (total 4 hrs each week) will do CoDependence to InterDependence online intensive. Sign-up by July 15th and get five free 2-hr DVDs of your choice. Will include 3 PCEs.

NO SHOWS ON WEEK-ENDS.  SEE YOU MONDAY. 

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michael shared his take away from this week end was the need for “gentling of perception”

CoDependence online 14-week intensive from Sept 13 to Dec 13, FREE 5 DVD special offered for registration by the end of July.

Caller Ann,

Caller Lisa, shared she caught herself closing the door so noone could hear her yell at Bob. Her Father (Power Person) used to do the same thing. michael added to her example for those who may not be familiar with this work. Lisa said Bob had violated a goal she held for him instead of saying he made me feel…  Then shared her experience in yoga class. Both situations ‘mortified’ her. michael offered do worksheets on putting self down. And on being honored and respected.

Caller Susan, interesting to Ann perception. Also, Susan is offering:

1. Pilates Fusion: a gentle workout combining yoga, ballet, weight work, stretching, and Pilates exercises for people of all ages, genders and abilities. We meet Mondays and Thursdays from 9:15-10:15am (Eastern time). Come into the “room” at 9am to get set up. If interested, email susanbingham@chancelopera.com, and I will put you on my email list. You will receive the link the day before the class.

2. Mindshifter Support Group: meets Wednesdays from 10:30-noon-ish. Come at 10:15 to get set up. If interested, email susanbingham@chancelopera.com, and I will put you on my email list.

Caller Roma, anger covers pain.

Caller Julie in Oregon, touched by the depths of the work. What is the cost of the upcoming intensive? 4 hours each week for 14 weeks is $1,800 will have one StillPoint session too.

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michael explains sophistry

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Excerpt 40 min. on My Commitment

July 7, 2020 2^nd hour hosted by dr michael ryce, a caller, Dr Andracki, expresses deep appreciation for the “My Commitment” statement found on the whyagain.org website and asks Dr. Michael Ryce to explain where it came from and why it is so powerful. Dr. Ryce responds by sharing the history behind the tool, explaining that it grew out of more than 30 years of his own personal inner work within the Healing Through Relationships workshop. He originally believed relationships could be “diseased,” but eventually realized that relationships are always perfect mirrors showing us exactly what we still need to heal. The commitment was crafted line by line from Ryce’s own life, created each time he awakened from unconsciousness and needed words strong enough to pull his mind back into alignment with Love.

Ryce describes how the human mind is designed to run on only one fuel—the active presence of Love—and how even a moment of hostility or fear disrupts the mind’s capacity to function. He compares the mind to a diesel engine that will quickly break down if filled with gasoline. Words, he insists, are frequencies that literally fuel or damage both physiology and relationships. He explains that the commitment was built to counteract a culture that teaches blame, lying, hostility, and denial. Using stories from his own upbringing and broader culture, he illustrates how people learn to deny what they feel and to blame others for their internal pain, which disconnects them from Love and destroys relationships.

He then walks through the core lines of the commitment—promising to tell the truth, to bring sweetness into one another’s lives, to nurture, to treat the other gently and with respect, and to maintain alignment in one’s thoughts, words, and actions whether or not the other person is present. Ryce emphasizes that every unloving reaction comes from unresolved content inside oneself, not from the other person. The commitment directs one to look for and acknowledge the highest and best in the other, rooted in the ancient Aramaic understanding of humility as the capacity to see and cooperate with the good desires of others. He underscores the necessity of surrendering—not to fear or hostility, but to Love itself—so that one’s behavior expresses true being rather than generational pain.

Ryce explains that connection to Source must come first, comparing Love to the electricity required for any device to function. When humans unplug from Love, their words and behaviors become destructive. He also highlights the role of power-person dynamics, where under stress individuals automatically reenact the painful patterns of those who dominated them in childhood. The commitment is designed to interrupt these patterns by keeping Love conscious and by keeping communication open, even when old trauma is triggered. The final paragraph prepares one for the healing crisis that naturally arises when Love is made active, teaching the necessity of speaking responsibly, owning one’s internal realities, and refusing the culturally ingrained impulse to blame or abandon.

The show concludes with a reminder that the universe is built on resonance, and nothing we try to hide will stay hidden. Life continually brings forward whatever we need to heal, and commitment becomes a daily practice of reconnecting to Love, truth, and responsibility. The caller expresses gratitude for the clarity and transformative power of the commitment, and Ryce encourages everyone to download it from whyagain.org, post it visibly, and use it daily.

Goes hand in hand with Love Exchange https://whyagain.org/images/PDF/Love_Exchange.pdf

When you give energy you get the original

When you do the first two paragraphs of the Commitment then you become more vital everything unlike Love will come forward and the third paragraph covers the healing process.

YouTube https://youtu.be/v7Jo8TWd97U

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“You have the infinite capacity to choose the focus of your conscious awareness in each moment.” “The focus of your conscious awareness in each moment creates your experience of life in that moment.”

Caller Celinda, as I grow my physiology changes. Changed to not wanting meat. All messiah’s have clay feet. Question everything. Let go of the content we have been hiding.

“May I Be Frank?” documentary. His former violates a goal he holds and his rage comes up and he heads to the refrigerator for his ‘drug’ (previously the guys leading him through the process got rid of his junk food).

“Thanks for Sharing” movie is about addiction (mainly sex and alcohol). See their stress build and when their rage is not enough then they turn to their other drug and fall off the wagon. Rage is to anesthesize their pain.

HeartLand Aramaic Forgiveness app https://whyagain.org/apps-and-more/

CoDependence online 14-week intensive from Sept 13 to Dec 13, FREE 5 DVD special offered for registration by the end of July.

Caller Julie in OR. She is CoDependent and her addictions hide behind each other. Currently she realizes she wants to rescue everyone, including animals. michael asked how are you doing at taking care of (and healing) yourself? She realizes she sets herself back a lot. Take on 2 dogs and allow them to assist in own healing but set a schedule to stay true to self. “Call of the Wild” with Harrison Ford

Caller Ann in FL, like Julie has a fear to resistance and not finishing or doing the wake-up sheets. Wonder if she needs to do wake-up sheets on sleep and then come back to the resistant ones. If uncovered the root of the fear then might be successful. Did not do the MindShifter on being successful either. michael suggested Ann & Julie be accountability partners for each other. MindShifter: “It is safe & healing for me to embrace the awesomeness of the work I am able to do and follow though with it.”

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Tuesday Support Group info https://mindshifters-academy.org/tuesday-mindshifters-support-group/

Thursday Support Group info https://mindshifters-academy.org/support-groups/

Jurate facilitating a Support Group tomorrow night July 10th 6:30 – 8:30 PM info https://www.greenturtlenutrition.com/event/mindshifters-support-group/

Caller Susan B discusses ‘killing ants’ thinks she is a fraud. Her level of upset is minimal but “Kinship with All Life” talks about relationship with critters. Jeanie shared she is catching gnats the last few days.

michael shares a story of a tree and an altar at HeartLand.

Caller Julie in OR, discuss guilt.

Caller Celinda “Language of Silence” and “To Hear the Angels Sing” discussion of slavery and voluntary servantude. Bondservant verses free. Labelling self is demeaning and puts one in the place of judgement and punishment.

Caller Dr Andracki observation recently there has been talk about relationships and an offering is to possibly combine relationship talks into one place on website for easy access. Question: do you ever try to process failures or indescrepancies? Move to hold the space of love while those energetic patterns are processed. Emotional dynamics can expand/explode like “War of Roses” where they ultimately killed each other

Today is https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nikola_Tesla Tesla’s birthday. He is genius. Others along those lines Coral Castle https://coralcastle.com/ and Schauberger https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Viktor_Schauberger

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Caller Dr Stephen Andracki offered appreciation of the tapping and book suggestions by Dr Tim. Suggest he listen to the interview with Guy Finley and his book Relationship Magic at https://mindshifters-academy.org/audio-library/

Caller Julie – michael offers being aware it is yours and cancelling the goal and healing happens and get free of the pain. michael offered a MindShifter.

Caller Lisa held a goal for someone to care about me. Remember saying as a kid ‘I don’t care’ michael gave MindShifter: ‘It is safe, healing and fulfilling for me to care so deeply that I feel the impact of everything that is going on in the world and its reflection in my body.’ and ‘In my relationship with my daughter I am the only one that mattered, I am the only one that I cared about.’

Denial, dissociation and projection – stop and be with yourself and listen

Caller Celinda

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Caller Julie in OR offers thoughts to Susan

Susan speaks of being an enabler for her grandsons. michael caught her saying ‘tell me again, I can’t believe it” (like her grandson says)

Caller Magda adds thoughts for Susan then asked for a refresher on will and willpower. michael goes over MindGoalManagement https://whyagain.org/images/PDF/MindGoalManagement_rev2017.pdf

Caller Patrick McGhan,

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Caller Susan offered thanks for michael joining her support group this morning – it will be made available on the website. michael said he does not do diagnosis but offered information to look at it another way. Offered for Susan to look at her words ‘milked dry’ and there in lies her work. She had a memory of being pulled from her mothers breast and put on the bottle because she bit her mom when nursing.

Jeanie shared she is on the other side of a healing crisis. Thanks to Michele for filling in on the switchboard.  Prayers requested for her brother who is in the hospital.

Caller Jack spoke of ‘not taking things personally’ ie the storm falling

Caller Celinda spoke towards the word ‘but’ (which negates everything that came before it) and to replace it with the connector ‘and’ (which is inclusive of both thoughts). michael said in Aramaic when God created and said ‘it was good’ it meant ‘in its proper place at the proper time’ not as in good or bad (or evil). Instead of judging, embrace it and know it is good, receive the blessing.

Caller Tim B shared wanting to be an infant held by his Mom.

Announce the first ONLINE INTENSIVE from Sept 13th to Dec 13th – 3 hrs on Sundays and 1 hr on Tuesdays for 14 weeks

Caller Ann, asked about a worksheet she was doing on michael giving feedback everytime she asked a question. She said one thing and michael heard something different and she was not willing to believe that what he heard is what she said. Is that denial? michael offered the feeling might be angry.

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Caller Jack question on downloading archives. Jeanie offered use Chrome to download to your computer, Firefox does not give that option for some reason. Discussion of how much is a byte. Ask if 2 people are both in rage how can it be fixed? Info on Aramaicisms https://whyagain.org/aramaicisms/ or order at https://whyagain.org/shop/

Caller Magda, deep seated life-long problem, grief and disappointment and anger turned toward self. Triggered my grief by keeping my life with unfinished business. Power Person. Replicating how he lived his life. Discussion moved to being in disturbance if another is in disturbance and needing to fix it. MindShifter: “It is safe, healing and desirable for me to rise above the levels of happiness and competence my father lived in. And he will be the first one to gently, lovingly embrace me when I do.”

Caller Susan B, spoke of her daughter meeting with cathedral convention and talking about boarding up the stained glass windows due to riots. Also fear of covid due to the big crowd. michael suggested she meet with the town council and explain what she wants to happen and listen to their input and work together.

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Online Intensive flyer is now on the website (https://whyagain.org/images/PDF/2020CoDepCommPractOnline.pdf) michael talks about what will be covered in the 14-weeks. Extended the Five FREE DVD offer if registered for the online intensive by August 10th.

Chatroom – Lisa holding the space for Bob (her partner) whose white blood count dropped to almost zero (gone to Cleveland Clinic for 3 days now)

Caller Julie made an offer to assist in the meal plan for the 14-weeks. CoDependent issue, in denial about adopting two dogs. What do you want to create? Resonable and manageable stresses.

michael talked about being in productive, creative mode verses staying in a survival mode (fear)

Caller Susan added the thought that perhaps michael can join a Zoom group and kick in with info to support the groups.

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Added several new items to the website. Began a page under MindShifters Support Groups where there will be links to Audios and Videos of Support Groups in which dr michael ryce or Dr Tim Hayes are facilitators or participants https://whyagain.org/mindshifter-support-group-videos-audios/

Added 3 edited shows under the MP3s section: Gentling of Perception & a great Power Person example, Explanation of the Commitment and Will verses WillPower

Began a page for items specifically on Relationships (requested by Dr Andracki) request to send jeanie@whyagain.org any specific show or worksheet or url from the website that related to Relationships

Jurate has volunteered to do the menu and recipes and grocery lists for the 14-week online intensive. Thank you Thank you.

Caller Dr Andracki, lately visited patients in hospice and he knows they have limited time on earth. Ask for an explanation of how to hold the space for them? michael offered first look at what I hold within me around death. If I am going to be of support then I need to clean up my mind around death and the fear or pain. Suggests the Love Exchange https://whyagain.org/images/PDF/Love_Exchange.pdf

Dr Andracki asked for further explanation of difference in body and being.

Movie “Saved by the Light” about Dannion Brinkley who died 2 or 3 times and returned to his body with great revelation https://www.amazon.com/Saved-Light-Profound-Revelations-Received/dp/0061662453

Movie “Rumor of Angels” with Vanessa Redgrave, a woman processes the death of her son and she develops a relationship with a young boy who is grieving the death of his mother and the healing of each other https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Rumor_of_Angels

“What it means to Hold the Space for someone” a family supported by a gifted palliative care nurse who came every few days to care for their Mom and to talk to the family about what could be expected in the coming days. https://upliftconnect.com/hold-space/

Caller Susan B in a bad way with an interchange with grandson Luke.

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Second hour with michael ryce. Thank you Michele for filling in for Jeanie. Also dropped at 24 minutes. However, the recording with Susan B and Grady were captured.

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Caller Susan B discusses issues with Luke (her grandson). Liturgy means our common work.

Caller Jack offered some info from AA on rescuing another. We can’t fix them.

michael shared a writing Susan had sent to him about finding happiness – shift can occur. If we are in pain it is because it is stored in our minds. “The Mind of Christ in you” – when hostility or fear rear their ugly head that is CBM and we have no control over that but we do have choice to follow the mind of Love.

Caller Ann in FL, going to holistic dentist for a post implant. Using the MindGoalManagement sheet and am in peace and calm and trusting. I like seeing the end result from the beginning and see the bone knitting perfectly. michael offered there is a supplement called Bone Knit

TV series “HeartLand” had a great quote “You are scaring yourself … that internet betrays as much as it enlightens.” Careful what you buy into.

Quote by Liam Neeson “Everyone says love hurts, but that is not true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love, but in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all pain and makes someone feel wonderful again. Love is the only thing in this world that does not hurt.”  https://tosavealife.com/relationships/love/liam-neeson-love-quote/

Caller Doug B., Rukha d’Koodsha the force proper for humans and then Touvehoun is a latent neurostructure in our physiology. What is the difference? michael explained that Rukha is like the signal and touvehoun means the neurostructure is in us but latent and we have to follow certain things to make it active. Like a TV channel signal is in the air but you have to turn on the TV (the receptor) to receive it and see it. What neurostructure is active? Still small voice can’t be heard easily when the NOISE of hostility and fear is rocking. She will work in us if we invite her into activity.

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Callers Susan B and Grady L. shared experiences with their children and grandchildren

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Caller Dr Andracki, conversation around hospice and holding the space. Suggest we create a page on Death and Hospice. They will be starting their support group back up on Zoom Friday August 7 from 6 – 8 pm pacific time (michael will join the first meeting)

Caller Jack comment on hospice

Caller Dianne in MN, her father has dementia and lots of things happening there so extends love to what Jeanie is dealing with. Then she discussed that she is in a healing crisis had been on a 3-day vacation and processing on Monday and now at the next level.

YShua said get behind me satan … like telling the mind to get behind and allow the emotions to move.

Caller Doug, hot-button for him is that masks are mandatory. So much fake news. michael offered part of the equation is dissension within

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Thank you Michele for filling in.

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Thank you Michele for filling in.

The 2nd hour is a prerecorded show of Dr Tim, “Saying Goodbye to Good People Without Saying Goodbye to Good Memories” – michael and Jeanie are at her brother’s graveside service, hold the space.

https://mindshifters-academy.org/process-for-grief-and-loss/  listen to Part 1 and Part 2 of Dr Tim’s discussion and download his handout at https://mindshifters-academy.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/Saying-Goodbye-to-Good-People-Handout.pdf

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Thank you Michele for filling in.

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michael talks about the sweet generosity of Arya giving him her ‘Woofy’ and ‘Lamby’ yesterday when he lay down on the couch. What if everyone on the planet were willing to give up their comfort for another. Must strengthen the state of being and then remove hostility and fear from the mind.

Caller Jack suggested Susan go to https://al-anon.org/ for information

Caller Dr Andracki asked … michael offered coupling adds energy for the individuals. The guru goes off to the mountain to meditate but if they don’t confront what is inside they can’t go further. Set a standard to recognize that ‘if I am feeling it, it is mine.’ instead of projecting on the other person. In relationship we apply the tools on a deeper level, when we let someone in close enough to touch that part of you.  In coupling, one plus one is three – Pagra (My Commitment). We come together in resonance so we play in a space with one who vitalizes us enough to look at what has been hidden when alone.

Jeanie offered in context of relationship from another perspective, the other person can hold the space for you when you can’t hold it yourself. And the one who brings it up for you is also the one who can help you heal.

Next Friday August 7th Pahrump begins virtual support group. We will be posting the call-in info.

Caller Tim B, when we heal ourselves how do we heal generations before us? michael said recognize we are eternal beings and carry in our energy field cells of all. What impacts one impacts the other whether in the physical body or not.  Gave the example of Ari breathing through the memory of being a preemie and not being touched and his sister calling at the exact moment saying how angry she was that his birth took her mother away from home. Genetic connection.

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Caller Susan B. discussion of being a child and observing a sibling be abused is the same as abuse to self.

Jeanie shared Arya (23 mo) confident of her ability to assist Jeanie’s Dad (87 yr) in getting outside on the porch, she lay down her ‘Woofy’ and ‘Lamby’ and held up her little hand to her PopPop and said “hand.”  We want to maintain the knowledge in her of being able to do anything.

michael spoke of working with a couple and the man’s Power Person dynamic of yelling at his spouse the same as the father yelled at him as a child.

Caller Yelena, doing the work, stopped crying, holding the space for her Mom to pass on.  Asked about using alternatives for pain and sleep, is she slowing her healing process? michael said there is a place where things like white willow bark (instead of asprin) are helpful to take for treatment of symptoms, there is no need to suffer.

Healing Crisis vs Dis-ease https://whyagain.org/easing-through-a-healing-crisis/ Listen to excerpt from April 22, 2020 radio show MP3 on Healing Crisis  & on May 4, 2020 radio show MP3 continuation.

Caller Joan, shared while being with her sister (recouperating from knee surgery) she enjoyed her time because she was aware of her goals and stopped herself before getting upset. Forgiveness process is powerful.

Caller Dr Andracki, asked about a group of people (ie Support Group) and the dynamics of bringing the active presence of love to the group for healing (hold the space). Begin with the Love Exchange https://whyagain.org/images/PDF/Love_Exchange.pdf