Radio Show Archive – March 2017
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| March 1 | Recovery Wednesday!
Announcing intensives and update at Oak Island. Asking to hold the space for Terri Mann and the loss of her sister this morning and also for Misty and Jonas and the delivery of their second child. Dr Tim last night MindShifter Group. Lots of processing going on, Tim had sent a letter this week to resign from a group he had been part of for years and felt sad. Wake-up sheet brought up being a senior in college and on his drive home had a flood of thoughts. The overlap was today needing to help his mother, family needing support, all the businesses he has, his own private practice, etc. Not enough time to give to everyhting and everyone. As a senior in college he was over extended in taking classes, teaching classes, lab assistant and was pushed toward a nervous breakdown and resigning from being resident assistant. Dreams about it, did EFT, released lots of energy and is in a better space today – recovered his connection to Source. Highly recommends becoming part of a group or starting your own. michael said it is amazing how things are triggered by current events and being able to move through. Thank you for sharing that. And come play with us on March 17th for Intuitive Development. Caller Gail, asked for all to send light around the central IL area about the storm they are experiencing. She shared she realized the link between her finances and the sexual abuse – root shakra and the absorption of energy. Healing crisis is that syptomatically the energy coming out looks just like it did when the energy was going in. michael offered the 4 things to ask oneself to see if it is dis-ease process or healing process. And gave an exercise to reactivate Rakhma and keep recovery process going. Gail said she just needed the review. Caller Rex. Enjoying reconnecting with the community. On the show yesterday and today. When something is surfacing, is now almost enjoyable to be aware that while it may include discomfort knowing the outcome is worth it. The experience of listening to Gail, accessing previous information (trauma and pain) appreciated the check-in and willingness to go through it. The more I do the work the faster and smoother I move through the process. Acknowledge that both Tim and Gail (and self) paused and were willing to experience the discomfort and be present. Pausing and asking what would a newborn do? Smile and just be. They don’t have the resistance we do. |
| March 2 | michael announced the upcoming events and invited people to go to the website www.whyagain.org
Dr Tim shared the continuously amazing results of doing this work. The pattern of people “want it done now” … it takes patience and practice. Monkey-mind chatter. A privalege to work with others in doing this work. Get engaged and trained and pass it on. Caller Susan D., a lady in her group had a heart transplant and what is the best way to work with her? She and her husband are coming to Breathe Saturday. She feels separate from the new heart. Her original heart problem was genetic. michael offered we have an immune system that recognizes ‘parts’ that it considers foreign. She has a big piece of work to do around the genetics that created her original heart issue and now the genetics of the new heart. A significant organ that is associated with love. Also befriend the new heart and the genes delivered with it and every dynamic that comes with it. To ‘fall deeply in love’ with the new heart so it is no longer foreign but is hers. A bigger challenge than most but to forgive the attitude that it is too great. Caller Shelly. wants opinion on monogomous or multiple sexual relationships. michael said ‘stop doing what you feel like doing’ Stay within what you are committed to do. Distraction with someone else has to do with not wanting to look at something the monogomous relationship is stirring. Clean it up within the context of the relationship. Jeanie joined the discussion and suggested ‘being honest and telling your monogomous partner’ would probably bomb that relationship and they may not trust you any more. |
| March 3 | michael opens with the “five smooth stones” that strengthen our Spiritual faculties which assists us in staying on purpose. Everyone has the same Primary purpose: to build a conscious, Spiritual body. Secondary purposes all vary.
The Spiritual five smooth stones: Carbon-Based Memory has:
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| March 4
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| March 5
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| March 6 | Dr Tim opened the show explaining the difference in Aramaic Forgiveness and Pardoning.
Miracle Monday! http://www.acim.org/Lessons/lesson.html?lesson=52 “I am upset because I see what is not there. Actuality (in our teaching) is never frightening. It is impossible that it could upset me. Actuality brings only perfect peace. When I am upset, it is always because I have replaced (actuality) with illusions I made up. The illusions are upsetting because I have made them actuality, and thus regard actuality as an illusion. Nothing in God’s creation is affected in any way by this confusion of mine. I am always upset by nothing. I see only the past. As I look about, I condemn the world I look upon. I call this seeing. I hold the past against everyone and everything, making them my enemies. When I have forgiven myself and remembered Who I am, I will bless everyone and everything I see. There will be no past, and therefore no enemies. And I will look with love on all that I failed to see before. My mind is preoccupied with past thoughts. I see only my own thoughts, and my mind is preoccupied with the past. What, then, can I see as it is? Let me remember that I look on the past to prevent the present from dawning on my mind. Let me understand that I am trying to use time against God. Let me learn to give the past away, realizing that in so doing I am giving up nothing. I see nothing as it is now. If I see nothing as it is now, it can truly be said that I see nothing. I can see only what is now. The choice is not whether to see the past or the present; the choice is merely whether to see or not. What I have chosen to see has cost me vision. Now I would choose again, that I may see. My thoughts do not mean anything. I have no private thoughts. Yet it is only private thoughts of which I am aware. What can these thoughts mean? They do not exist, and so they mean nothing. Yet my mind is part of creation and part of its Creator. Would I not rather join the thinking of the universe than to obscure all that is really mine with my pitiful and meaningless “private” thoughts?” Caller Brenda, humility means something different from Aramaic what about Vulnerability. Dr. Tim “when I am attacking my invulnerability” I am creating a false belief that I can be hurt. My perception is colored by the sins of the fathers, the wars, the dream of separation, etc. The way the world actually is never shows up in my physical perception. ACIM says “the world you see is false perception” Thus we are attacking the truth that we are one with the Creator. On my own I can do nothing but the Father through me can do anything. Everything I have a perception of that is less than love is false. Now can my physical body be hurt, can my thoughts go astray, can my bank account be hit? Yes but the only relationship in my life that is of any significance is my relationship with my Creator. What about my relationship with ____? Those relationships have no significance if I do not have a focused awareness of the Creator first. If I am a part of that energy system, your essence is whole and perfect. Everything else is false perception. Your Christ consciousness has never been damaged. You cannot be separated from Source. Your mind can created a belief that you can be hurt and separate…that you are vulnerable. The truth is you are invulnerable (cannot be hurt). Often people say you must be vulnerable or be open – menaing to be responsible for everything, the false perceptions and in that process you restore your awareness to your wholeness. Be in full responsibility for pain, fear, sadness that we create in our reality and give credit and full responsibility to the Creator for the experience of love and joy and wholeness. Brenda said she sees it as a tool to assist us in going to the next step? Dr Tim said if we say “I’ll be vulnerable” is not the same as the ACIM saying you are “invulnerable” Dr Tim says he reminds himself that what we have is “a teaching” that has come to us through our own language, trying to point towards things way beyond the capacity to describe. Don’t get lost in the language but the meaning. Jeanie added like michael’s part in the Khabouris project was to put the translation into the lab of life to see if it worked, if it did not work then the translation is not accurate. It is deeper than a translation of words (deeper than the words). Caller Camille, attempted responsibility communication with Robert to explain the reality management wake-up sheet and the work she is doing with Julie. He says it is not his cup of tea, etc. She then had financial issues come up around the condo, she is attempting to pull her business out of the point of bankruptcy. And he said “I guess you can’t afford to live here.” instead of saying “Honey I understand and I love you and want you to stay here with me and I will help.” He says well that is all true and she said I need to hear that from you and he did not. They are stuck in this financial place. Dr Tim offered the purpose of the responsibility communication is always for me. Asking “do you have any ideas how I can heal my pain around this?” then listen because they may have the answer to the predicament. You can get benefit in steps 1 through 6 (step 7 is problem solving). The tool is not about changng the other person’s response. Camille appreciates the triggers of not loved and invaluable, has more wake-up sheets to do. Dealing with a lot of misplaced anger from my partner. Dr Tim said if convinced of this, best thing to do is to dismantle any upset around thinking he is projecting the anger on you. How does it look like your life? Tap in and get a stronger sense of negative emotions being triggered. “All of the above.” The 3-early memories may show you where you created the belief and behaviors. This work is about how one deals with their perception and how to get to “seeing” accurately. Not about the finances and who pays what but is about getting to conscious active love and then have a closer more accurate picture of what is going on and how to respond. Make the picture bigger and more accurate. Life wants me to be healthy and full awareness so when I live in an illusion and create limitations then life will kick me in the limitations. Alanis Morissette “Madness” says “thank you for your most generous triggers” Caller Cindy in Chicago, two situations where in a nutshell she screwed up and one situation she was angry and telling another coworker and that coworker went to the boss and the third coworker was brought in and she felt guilty. Another situation she kept putting off and then the friend said I thought we were better friends. Has a perception of hurting other people and feels guilty. Not who she wants to be. Dr Tim offered when we act in a way we would not want to it refers to the Power Person. When our PP acted in a way that was not loving then we download that it is a way to win (to survive). Three behaviors all based on the level of stress. Theme in the work and it is about avoidance of conflict, not wanting to disappoint someone and end up doing the very thing you dread….setting up more conflict and disappointment and disruption. Look at your PP dynamics and say what is the next level to step into a situation even though my monkey-mind says no don’t go. |
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| March 8 | Jeanie hosted the show. Intro of the work and where to find worksheets on the website.
Caller Caller Camille continued with the issues with her partner. |
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| March 11
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| March 12
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| March 13 | Miracle Monday! |
| March 14 | Dr Tim and others requested Julie Haverstick call in and clarify what she was talking about with her “vision” and “desire” in the wake-up sheet. |
| March 15 | Recovery Wednesday! Recovering our being. Asked Julie and Tracey to call in today to clarify what they are doing with the wake-up sheet.
Caller Julie asked about worksheets on her dog possibly leaving (passing). MindShifter: It is safe and healing and I am committed to holding the space of love for Ulysses when he decides to leave. Life is not designed to be trauma unless we need it that way. Caller Julie explained the tapping into the new goal and creating a vision. She uses the 11-step wake-up sheet and realized she was creating another story opposed to what was in ABCD. She realized it created a different vibration. She began teaching it this way and seeing people’s lives changed by creating a vision. Number 11 has added “I acknowledge us…and enthusiastically create….” Example: when working with someone Julie will write the vision from her perspective and they will write their vision of what happened. michael said it is in alignment with purpose. Julie also spoke of the desire which adds a deeper emotion. michael offered the last goal can also be a mindshifter to see what is holding you back from creating it. Jeanie added the last goal is also a real goal not just the end of a wake-up sheet but something to accomplish. Julie said this wake-up sheet is the greatest gift, and the hydra takes you to the next step. michael spoke of reminding him of the use of beads (i.e Catholic rosary or Budhist) it goes down to the next level and the next etc. Doing this step leads to the next level. Caller Tracey. Chimed in, enjoyed the vision statements. Powerful addition to the work. So much in context of the spoken word coming into existence. Two or more are gathered, when both of us do number 11 and then read them, the addition is another layer of Grace. Julie often sees something I don’t. Example Safe and healing for me to relax and ask God to guide me daily…embrace … let go… then Julie wrote gentle is my word and I choose to do my life … saving them all and then reading the vision statements repeatedly. Empowering to see what comes out of choosing to be conscious. Wonderful addition to the process. michael offered each of those statements are mindshifters to see what resistors are there to keep me from creating it. Julie read a vision statement from a student’s wake-up sheet around her father leaving when he was alone. “I am willing to be a receptive learner and teacher of love an willingly release dad on his journey…I can change and alter the direction for me and my family…I know with great joy…set him free to mke his journey and recommit to my healing journey to create a new vibration.” michael said a collection of those in a book would be great and encouraged Julie to do that. Camille in the chatroom. “One issue I seem to repeat – and Julie will confirm – when I reach #6 ‘the driving goal’, I seem to jump to #11 a loving goal. Don’t yet know how to clearly write the driving goal for the trigger. Julie’s method works – not always when I work alone.” Julie said she often gets them to revisit ABCD and ask “what was I really thinking?” instea of wanting to get to the end of the worksheet and what they really want. Julie said she has to reinforce with most people not just Camille to look at the driver…it is a common behavior. michael said also maybe take #11 and move it up to #6 and cancel that goal – maybe each aspect (in pieces) and see what may be beneath that too. Julie said doing the vision brings in the energy of possibility that is not normally there. People seem more happy about doing their healing work. She also said in #6 she has changed the word “want” to “desire” because the frequency was softer and sweeter. Dr Tim said this was a show he would revisit. michael said “de – sire” is “of the Father” – it is His pleasure to give us of the kingdom. Tracey called back in to read one more vision statement. |
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| March 17 | Happy St Patrick’s Day. Intro on owning what one feels and reconnecting to one’s being (Love).
Dr Tim, commented on yesterday’s show, reading about the book “The Cure” and the statement of just living with it that nothing is cured. Dr Tim thought of a podcast Krista Tippett (http://onbeing.org/programs/bessel-van-der-kolk-how-trauma-lodges-in-the-body/) Krista interviews Bessel van der Kolk on March 9th on How Trauma Lodges in the Body. Tim also referred to Michele from yesterday’s show and how she said she quietens down and breathes and listens to her body. michael mentioned the Intuitive Development intensive and how it is experiential in learning what intuition feels like when on target. Dr Tim shared from the support group last night. All the different people who are teaching the ‘how to’ of removing what does not belong (ie Krishnamurti, Guy Finley, michael ryce) Question in the chatroom, “Does sadness or grief constitute an emotion or condition that doesn’t belong in me? I know fear or anger qualify as such, but isn’t sadness or grief a “normal” reaction to the loss of a loved one?” Jeanie responded, I will get michael to address but it is only “normal” because that is what we have been taught and it is in our genetics. I know several who have been able to hold to love within themself and stood as such in the face of loss. Sadness and grief creates dis-ease in your body – it is less than love. Now, it is challenging in the face of loss because of what is inside of us. michael reaffirmed that they are a product of energies moving in us that do not belong. Remove those energies and then instead of bringing sadness and grief to the event (death or loss of relationship) one can bring conscious, active love to the event. What we bring we will experience. There is no ‘should’ but just saying by bringing the true being of yourself you will experience life differently. Dr Tim added, we have been conditioned of what to feel. Let’s look at something you can relate to directly. Of all the people who have gotten a divorce, observe, did they have the same response to the outside event? The answer is no, they are based on inside. Get through the surface belief. Be sad if you choose, but understand it is not because of the outside event. He gave an example of someone walking out of the room verses dropping their body. The essence of them is still alive. michael said we can choose how we want to feel and bring a different experience than the patterns learned from the power person. Self-imposed dynamics that will kill you. Caller Julie, regarding the vision statement at the end of the wake-up sheet. Intuition is that it is a vibration we are setting up. Quote Einstein, “Everything is energy and that’s all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality you want and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics.” michael spoke of Resonance verses Reason. Awaken the faculty of choice. Caller Shelley, why recreate the things we know are lies from the past? Jeanie responded that positive thinking and affirmations don’t get rid of it. Example of trashcan that eventually needs to be dumped verses airfreshner. michael added that knowing what is in the trashcan does not empty it. Shelley said he is getting where he can recognize it as a lie and not feel the pain any more. michael said when you soften aand breathe you will know if you are ‘hardened or healed’ |
| March 18
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| March 19
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| March 20 | Miracle Monday! Michele filled in for Jeanie, thank you.
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| March 21 | Jeanie opened the show.
Dr Tim shared listening to The Way of Mastery lesson 15, love or fear, the choice is yours. The tools have heped him step into living in a more loving state. Applying them in his life. Jeanie added that the “applying” of the tools is where the change will take place, not in the knowing about them. Caller Julie from Oregon fear and anger about finances. She “tail ended herself” (backed into the garage when it was icey) and then going for a procedure at the dentist and creating a scenario that might not even happen. She is more quickly able to recognize which filter is active and shift back to Love. michael spoke of Job and what he feared most had come upon him. Develop trust that the work works. And the Creator will provide whatever you need…negative or positive. Julie said when she thinks of how powerful she could live, it resonates fear around the change. Change the content and the mind will massage it to fit the circumstance. Julie said when everything is going great and she is in love then it is easy to want to hold onto that and create from that place. Dr Tim highlighted the fact of being ‘vulnerable’ is a creation in our head whether it is a good or bad thing. Rest in my true nature and there is no energy being spent on the negative. We can create a perception of ourself as vulnerable, can be hurt or something taken from us. Different than being open and accepting of what is coming our way. Recognize the mind is an evidential device and it will give evidence that supports my thoughts and support it being expressed in our world. The energies that move in us spray out on others around us and tey will respond to that same energy. Caller Shelly, requested Jeanie tell the Rose and Butterfly story. Caller Jennifer, going back to work where it is toxic and finds herself looking for a way to not go back (even to the point of hurting self). Wouldn’t it be better to quit a good job with the government than go back to that situation? michael asked what was she feeling? Deny it is your, believe it is about them, but can’t deny you are feeling it. Do the wake-up sheet, identify the feelings and forgive the feelings. However, tolerating it and avoiding is not an escape. Listen to https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8D9mhHd6P_U Madness by Alanis Morissette … the madness still goes on when you are not in the room and I should thank you. So stay around and graciously receive your paycheck and keep doing your work. Then if you get into the space of connected love you may choose to leave your job because it does not serve you. She realizes it is within her but does not feel she is prepared to deal with it out there. |
| March 22 | Recovery Wednesday! michael opened speaking of awareness.
Dr Tim shared from their support group watching Ian Lungold’s video on the Mayan calendar (see https://www.mayanmajix.com/ian/) which defines consciousness as being aware that what I focus my awareness on is what I become conscious of. Maps time in progression of consciousness. The purpose is to become more aware of the tools we have. One is our mind (or carbon based memory) and then he says “we have to be out of our minds” – intuition and higher wisdom and Rukha can give us more than just our mind can show us. Caller Gail shared working with a sponsee and becoming “Joan the Baptist” when the sponsee went into defense of her status in life. What Gail got out of it was she deserved to take the time to give to her own healing process. Caller Ron gave a thanks to Gail. He is grateful for being able to be home with his new son and let go of the thoughts he needs to be out doing other things. |
| March 23 | Princeton Running Team was staying next door to us and michael shared our interaction with them yesterday.
World of Physics says every molecule in the universe is in constant connection to every other molecule. We are practicing the use of our intuition during this intensive. michael shared we took the whole group to see the movie The Shack, the man meets the Creator and experiences constant active love and heal his inner turmoil over losing a child. Reclaiming our birthright. Watching people use the tools and the joy and aliveness and sanity that shows up. Dr Tim said yes he has stories of others healing but the transformation in his own life is so grand. He shared getting triggered in his office 3 weeks ago. Knowing the triggers are there and that they have been impacting relationships in an adverse way (for 41 years) and using the toolsand seeing his life change in ways he could never have imagined. So quickly and with lasting results. It is a blessing to be around the transformation. Referrenced yesterdays video from Ian Lungold. Caller Julie shared taking a friend to the movie The Shack and he was able to be more open realizing we are never alone and have the loving presence with us always and saw true forgiveness was letting go of the hostility and fear. michael offered holding onto the energies that are off the mark create dis-ease in our body, mind and emotions. In the movie the Creator shows up as a woman in the beginning and a later time as a man and he says “you need a father to work through this one.” Every male needs a father and every female needs a mother at certain times of their life to embrace and love what is held that needs to be dealt with. Julie said she thought often the church has taken over the forgiveness process and it needs to be a personal inside job. Glad to see it is coming out more. michael said the origin of people coming together on one day of the week to ‘worship’ was called liturgy which means ‘our common work’ – the movie showed YShua as one on the path. Hanover County in North Carolina has a school (JC Roe Center) for kids who have been suspended from regular school for 6th to 12th grades. micahel will be presenting to all student assemblies. Elementary, Middle School and High School next Thursday, March 30th. Hold the space. Caller Doug. Fear of dying alone of cancer like his father did. Cancel the need to have support or love in your life? michael explains how the goal drives the behavior from the unconscious. And gave a direction for worksheets around not being supported. michael walked Doug (and all listeners) through an exercise for releasing negative emotional cycles in life, with people or relationships through releasing attachments. |
| March 24 | michael speaks of changing the meaning of words. ie satan is the resistor one who misleads not a external persona.
Intuitive Development exercise of trust. to live truly as trust and bring that to others to live in their innocence Dr Tim shared from their support group last night, 3 men and 3 women, his sense (intuition) was people’s stress level was up. He did the worksheet which led to discussion afterwards. How can I carry so much in me influencing my day to day reactions. I am clear and asked for guidance an this person’s response is not about me. michael expanded on unconscious dynamics and how they run our lives. Caller Roma, asked michael to describe the inside verses the outside in intuitive development. michael offered to tap into energy and trust. He gave examples of our exercises. Listening to the intuitive messages and finding out when we are on target and when we are not. michael explained some of the intensive work we do. Including the Food Fun Forgiveness and Work Program. Jeanie shared issues that have cropped up at HeartLand with the well and waterlines. Dr Tim said he had a session with a 34 year old having very strong goals for his parents who are not emotionally stable. He is craving their acceptance and approval. Been doing the CoDependence and EFT tapping along with the wake-up sheet. Realize if I ask to be shown I will see the goals I hold. This gentleman was previously aggitated that he’d never get through this and now he sees that he has more flexibility and relaxing into the process. michael offered the message from the movie The Shack is that on the other side of forgiveness is love and patience. |
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| March 26
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| March 27 | Miracle Monday! |
| March 28 | michael shared from the CoDependence Intensive we just completed. Last night we watched the movie “Thanks for Sharing” about different types of addictions (srugs, alcohol and sex) which acutely portrays that the gateway drug is hostility. Then if hostility does not suppress the pain they turn to their other addiction. There should be a hostility anonymous 12-step program.
Dr Tim shared that Nene called in yesterday and it was wonderful to hear from her. Great conversation with Michele and Jennifer. Makes the hour go quickly when we have new perspectives to integrate. Two people had watched the power point presentation and said it was powerful visual explaining forgiveness. (https://whyagain.org/powerpoints-explain-2/) Caller Julie praised Dr Tim leading Nene through her process yesterday. Lots of breathing. Experientially speaking, it really reached Julie. Dr Tim opened the show sharing his own process then Michele and Dr Tim dialogued. Very valuable show. michael announced the 9-day Why intensive starting here in NC on Friday. Nene called back in. Next layer. Got a higher level of understanding and is more patient with her process. michael said that is the ‘peace that passes all understanding’ and uncovered probably deep unconsciousness. Dr Tim encouraged Nene to tweak the MindShifter to ‘fit’ and then let us know what comes out of it. Old baggage, a generational issue that has come forward to give the opportunity to unload, she said she did the worksheets but saving the mindshifter for the weekendvwhen she has more time. Chatroom Lisa, asked for support in procrastination. michael said it’s referred to as the ‘monkey mind’ – the mind won’t let go on its own – we must cancel the goal to release the mind from attempting to relieve the stress of too many goals. We are not taught to cancel our goals. michael walkedus through how do you cancel a goal? Julie called back in to add that for herself it showed that she was carrying around ‘failure’, and she is pretty hard on herself and that escalates it even more. michael said tap in on how it felt when her PP was hard on her, lot of stress. Behavior follows goals (and stress). Cancel the goal to be approved of and accepted by her PP and cancel the goal for the PP to cherish her, and treat her lovingly and gently. Julie said she was waiting for her PP to set her free and they can’t. michael said other people can frame them but we are the only ones who can set them and it is time to let it go. Can she handle the power when she gets out of ‘prison’? Nene said what just came up for her was ‘not good enough’ Caller from Lansing. Further explanation by what we mean as a goal. YShua said ‘sufficient for the day are the evils thereof’ that meant incomplete (the goals). Only have goals (committed to achieving) in the next waking period. Procrastination happens when the ‘to do list’ is too long. Too many goals and the mind says I quit. michael gave the example of a computer overloaded and crashes when resources are used up. Close some programs and it runs better…cancel goals and there are more resources are available. |
| March 29 | michael opened with the quote by Carl Jung “those who look without dream (sleep) and those who look within awaken”
We are here to support you in learning the tool of forgiveness (and all the other tools) Keep a notebook to ask questions on the show. Caller Gail, briefly went through the 12-steps and how intuition fit in with them. Gail atteneded the 4-day women with her daughter and then came back for the 9-day Intuitive Development. Dr Tim said when he has an easy identifyable target (the rage-aholic or alcoholic) in the house and it is easy to put the threat there and they can’t see the other parent as a PP because it is a safe space and hide any upset with the second parent. Taking the PP dynamics off of the first parent and looking at them as belonging to the second parent and opening the emotional trauma that was hidden before (holding lies as truth). Gail said as an adult she creates safety for herself. michael offered that “feeling safe” is not complete, forgive the fear and develop consciously, purposely trust. If there is still fear then creating a safe space will not keep the fear from being triggered. He gave an example: as a child this girl was sexually assaulted and when her bedroom door knob turned she knew what was coming so as an adult anything that resembled the sound of a doorknow and she was back in fear. Texted question: “want to hear you speak about suppressed memories, maybe from a psychological perspective and typical experiences of how the memories manifest in adulthood.” Caller Shelley, shared how his memories first showed up as a physical pain before any emotion or thought came forward. michael praised Susan for her support group last night and walking a gentleman through a wake-up sheet. |
| March 30 | Dr. Tim ran the switchboard and hosted while michael and jeanie went to speak at an alternative out-of-school suspension facility. |
| March 31 | Jeanie opened the show describing her and michael’s day yesterday in the alternative school. michael added comments around what he got out of the day as well. Much seemed to be received albeit challenging and gave an opportunity to heal grief.
Dr Tim shared being an assistant probation officer and dealing with 5 and 6 year olds being accused of fire, etc. and 8 and 9 year olds huffing glue. It has been going on a long time and I was shocked at the young ages. Keeping love in the space where there is that much pain reasonating my pain. JC Roe has a great mission and vision for these children with such trauma. In one class there was a boy who was hyper active and a teacher sat behind him and just held him. Some of the kids have been sexually abused and are now acting out sexually. If there is a school like this in your community they need help. Volunteer to assist and take the tools and love into their space. Dr Tim said he was intrduced to these shocking dramas when he was in college. Then his first 2 jobs were correctional positions. He was hopeful he would make a huge difference in their lives. The second year he saw the same kids coming back and was shocked to see the ones he thought he ‘fixed’ were back. His boss told him, your job is to show up, be respectful and consistent and strong. These kids have not seen adults who have those traits. And if you think you are going to ‘fix them’ you will burn out. That advice back then literally changed his career and allowed him to stay in the field. He removes the negatives that come up in him and stays consciously aware and hold the space. Gives liberty to use the tools and be in the moment aware that if the person in front of him is raging or upset then they are in pain or fear. Facing my own, opens compassion for the people in front of him. Isn’t it nice to hand those people the tool and they use it and change their life. And some never come back. Blessing when people choose to be healthy and use the tools Caller Jill from Wilmington, had to breathe through listening to what happened at the school. Thankful we were able to go to the school and present. What can I do? (micheal offered perhaps spearhead a mindhsifter’s support group in the school to move this forward) Current wake-up sheets are on overwhelm so before I agree to take on something else I need to clean up my side of the street. |
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